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Pay the people that will make you wealthy

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Quite a number of people come to mind to talk about but today’s focus is on small business owners or those building a side hustle. If you are currently either on a corporate job or you left your corporate job and you are now working on your passion or your business that you’re doing on the side, which may now be a full-time profession, Whichever one it is, I’m assuming that you have a business that you’re running now.

Also I’m going under the impression that you want to become wealthy and for that to come to fruition, you need certain people to help you get there.

 

HIRING THE RIGHT PEOPLE


Today we’re talking about paying the people who make you wealthy but who are these people? There are three people that enable your business growth that you need to pay.

  • A Business Mentor
  • A Mindset Coach
  • Yourself

1. A Business Mentor

I learned about having mentors from Tony Robbins way back, when I was in my early 20s, I remember in his book he talked about modeling and how finding somebody who has gone through the part of success you want for yourself and replicating their actions makes your journey easier. We all know that the easiest way to bake a cake is to follow a recipe and the aim is that you would go out and find a mentor who has achieved what you want to achieve who can show you the steps on the way.

The coaching industry has really exploded to a billion dollar industry over the last 10 years. It certainly has different types of people who can coach you on different things, you would get all sorts of coach from parenting to business coach to even ads coach and so forth. There are two types of coaches that I believe you would need when it comes to having a successful business and the reason why I think these two should be two distinct people is because I’m yet to find someone who excels in both, myself inclusive.

So on one hand, you definitely need a coach or a mentor, somebody who can support you in your business. For example, if you’re setting up a business in the coaching industry stuff or you’re setting up a business where you are selling some kind of a course online, any kind of business that you’re doing, Whether it’s an off line business and you are doing the marketing for your B2C business. Irrespective of what kind of business, then I recommend you go out and get a mentor. Why? Because it takes years to accumulate experience you need to build a successful six or seven figure business.

Now, I’m talking about experience as a significant business owner, that it’s much easier to go out and find a mentor who can support your journey and help you build to that significant level which is why I recommend having a business coach who can help you along. And obviously I’m not going to recommend anyone in particular. There are different types of people out there, some people are more spiritual, some are quirky, some more direct, it depends on your philosophy and the kind of person you are.

I remember these two gentlemen that I actually worked with simultaneously in the same year. The first one was very Direct, very much alpha male, stuck in a 3D world, not very spiritual but he was an awesome mentor and the other mentor was very much spiritually aligned. They were both really amazing mentors in their own respect and I resonated with both of them, one more than the other. I learned from both of them a lot and with that knowledge, I was able to drive my business to 10x growth.

An important thing I want to bring to your attention is this, When you are working with a mentor, you’re not actually investing in the mentor, but yourself. Let me explain that clearly, people are far too occupied with investing in this and that when you want to work with them. In the middle of last year, I worked with a company who promised to get me a certain amount of leads through organic marketing, really slowly and now looking back in hindsight, it was an awful company. This was when I was investing in my business, I was investing in the company and not those people, that was wrong. When you work with a mentor, you are investing in yourself because you work with somebody who can teach you, who can help you to learn the skills and give you the skills required to build the business.

So, there’s a big distinction here, you’re not investing in the mentor, You’re investing in yourself. The first thing you’re going be doing is actually learning a particular skill set that you can use to build a successful business, that’s very important distinction to have.

So the first kind of coach that I would advise you to get would be a business coach.

2. A Mindset Coach

The second coach I would want you to get is a mindset person. Now, I truly believe that in order for you to have the kind of correct mindset, you need to have the right energies. I’m all about energy healing but I’m not going to force that upon you, What I would recommend you do is go out and work with someone who’s brilliant at fixing your mindset.

It’s like going to a doctor, Would you rather go to a general practitioner, who knows bit about surgery, a bit about heart condition and a bit about diabetes or a specialist who specializes in heart surgery or one who specializes in skin conditions and does that day in day out. Same thing applies when it comes to mindset, I want you to understand how important it is, Both of these mentors are important for you but some people would go for business coach and leave mindset out but I promise you mindset is really 80% of the game because if you don’t have the right mindset coach, you are going to be doing an uphill struggle

 

This is why I work with mostly multi six/seven figure business owners because these people have their skills they’ve learned, they’ve got business coach to help them set up, but just because business coaches have helped you set up the business doesn’t mean you’re going to be successful or be as successful as you want to be because you don’t have the right mindset, it just doesn’t have the right energy around it which is why I highly recommend that you engage both sides. Both are equally important, without one or the other, your business is always going to be struggling. You’re going be stuck in the boom of cycle. You’re going to be making money and losing money or even failing to scale up to the level you want to scale, you just keep on chasing your tail. One thing leads to another and you’re never getting anywhere.

If you only have mindset strategies or mindset tools but you don’t have a proper business strategy, then you’re chasing a tail again because you have to go out and actually work with somebody who can teach you the ropes of the business. I only take people who actually have established businesses, If you don’t have established business then I would usually refer you to my other programs and my monthly membership program is better. In order for you to qualify for my mastermind program, you have to have an established business, which you’ve been running for at least a year so we know that you have the skills required for you to scale up to get the kind of results you want as there’s no point coming to join mastermind until you have those skills or you’re willing to learn those skills and invested in a business mentor.

So these are the two people that you need to bring into your world and remember you’re investing not in them but in yourself in order to have an exceptional business.

3. YOURSELF

So we have covered the two people that you definitely want to pay, Who’s the third person? There is a third person to pay and guess what? That third person is you, you are going to make yourself wealthy. Far too often I find (I’ve been guilty of this in the past) that the last person you pay is yourself.

The business has expenses and you’ve paid for everything and then there’s no money left for you. There’s no money left there to pay you and this is where the book of profit first came to my attention, it made me realize that there were aspects of my business which needed tweaking, and I did.

One of the most important thing was to remember to pay myself first, and the reason for this is that you need to understand and give the universe a clear signal that you know how to treat, respect and value money. Therefore you need to be able to pay yourself and if you’re not paying yourself first then there’s something wrong there. I covered this in “my three steps to cash for mastery”

You have to pay yourself first, regularly and continuously, it’s non-negotiable. It’s something that you have to pay even if something else has to be cut down, And when you start paying yourself regularly, you will always find ways to pay yourself and you will also have the money required for everything else.

So the three people that I recommend that you pay are your business mentor who will give you the skills required to establish and set up a successful business, Number two would be your mindset or energy coach, somebody who can help align you with the right energies and the right kind of vibration that you need to be in, in order for you to attract the right clients, the right people, the right team members for you to set up and run a successful business.

Finally, I want you to remember to pay yourself first because you matter and therefore you need to appreciate yourself in order for you to move ahead. This is without a doubt and I hope you enjoyed reading today’s episode and you realize now that the people you need to pay in order for you to become wealthy are non-negotiable.

CONCLUSION

Do you have a business or thinking about one, already have one that’s been established for present time and you’re looking to see how you can improve it. So if you are looking to do any of those things then do take this advice.

You have to have all three of these people, one you obviously have is yourself, but you need to make sure that you have the two other people in your team who will help you to become successful and become wealthy. On a 9 – 5 job alone, it’s unlikely possible so I highly recommend you set up a business.

 Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/1XWn-1Sxp48

The Five Lies About Money

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Money is a topic that often elicits strong emotions in people. Some see it as a means to achieve their dreams, while others view it as a source of stress and anxiety. Regardless of how we feel about it, money plays a significant role in our lives. Unfortunately, there are many misconceptions and falsehoods about money that people believe to be true.

In this blog post, we will challenge these myths and provide insights into the truth about money. We will discuss five common lies about money and provide practical advice on how to overcome them. From the myth of the “get rich quick” scheme to the misconception that you need money to make money, we will explore each lie and explain why it is false.

By the end, you will have a better understanding of the common myths and misconceptions about money, and how they can hold you back from achieving financial stability and success. I will provide actionable steps that you can take to overcome these lies and make informed decisions about your money.

Whether you’re struggling with debt, trying to save for the future, or just looking to improve your financial situation, this blog post will provide valuable insights and practical advice that you can use to take control of your finances and achieve your financial goals. So, let’s dive in and debunk these five lies about money once and for all!

The First Lie: Money needs Money

One of the most commonly perpetuated myths about money is that it requires money to make money. This falsehood has been repeated countless times throughout the entrepreneurial journey of many individuals.

When people are presented with new ideas, one of the first things they say is, “I don’t have the initial capital, money needs money, and you need money to grow money.” While there is some truth to the notion that having money makes it easier to attract more money, this is not entirely accurate.

Money does like money, and it is easier to attract more money when you already have some. If you put money into a particular bank account or investment, over time, more money will flow towards it. However, this does not mean that you need money to make money. This is a complete falsity. It is possible to start a successful business with little to no money. The power of compounding will help you to make more money as you start to earn, but this does not mean that you need money to make money. I have started all of my successful and unsuccessful businesses with little or no money. In fact, the one business where I put in £100,000 of my savings was a complete and utter loss.

I currently have multiple businesses, most of which are crossing seven figures in revenue. Two of them that come to mind actually started with zero money: my coaching business and my property business. When I first started buying properties, I had very little money, but I was able to use creative financing and other strategies to make it work. Even now, if you want to go into property, you don’t need a lot of money. There are many strategies available to you that require little or no money.

I am now into acquisitions and enjoy buying businesses. I am always on the lookout for little or no money down deals. It’s not about having a lot of money, it’s about using your brainpower, knowledge, and understanding. Once you have an idea, you can either attract the financing required for it, find a partner or investor, or start with very little or no money at all.

 

The Second Lie: Money is hard to make

The second lie that I want to address is the belief that making money is hard. In my line of work, I have seen people from various niches, ranging from traditional brick and mortar businesses to online businesses to real estate businesses. And I can tell you that when people are in the flow, making money is not hard work. It only becomes hard when you’re stressed, struggling, and in a scarcity mindset. So, before you start thinking about making money, it’s essential to work on your mindset. I have said this time and time again to people that the business is 80% mindset and 20% strategy. When you work on your mindset, the structure becomes easy, and implementation becomes something you can do with ease and grace.

I firmly believe that making money is not hard, especially if you monetize a passion of yours. For example, coaching is a passion of mine, and it’s the one that gets me fired up and makes me the happiest. I love what I do, and I love talking to people about money and helping them transform their lives. I make money by coaching, which I absolutely love, and it doesn’t seem like working. Instead, it feels like talking to friends about a topic that I’m passionate about. So, I monetize my passion, and making money is not hard for me.

But if you believe that making money is hard, it will be. This is one of the greatest lies we have been told. The belief that making money is hard is one of the major paradigms that I try to shift for my clients in my mastermind. Mostly people who come from the middle class or working middle class, and even working-class families have these ideas that making money is hard, and it takes hard work to make money, which is not true.

The Third Lie: Money is hard to keep

One of the most common lies about money is that it’s hard to keep. If you’ve had financial traumas in your life, you may believe that it’s difficult to invest and hold onto money. However, feeding into negative energy and beliefs around money can cause a self-fulfilling prophecy. The truth is, money is not hard to keep; it’s actually quite easy to keep as long as you have a positive relationship with it.

Blaming money for not staying with you or being difficult to keep is not productive. Instead, it’s important to recognize that something within your energy is repelling money, causing it to leave you quickly. This is especially true for entrepreneurs who may experience a boom and bust cycle, making money only to lose it soon after.

I work with individuals to help them make more money, keep it, and avoid the feast and famine cycles that come with a negative relationship with money. By fostering a positive and friendly relationship with money, individuals can attract and retain wealth, improving their financial situation and overall well-being.

In conclusion, the myth that money is hard to keep is just that, a myth. By examining your relationship with money and addressing any negative energy, you can create a positive and fruitful financial future.

 

The Fourth Lie: The only way to make money quickly is through illegal means

I’m often told that the only way to make money quickly is through illegal means. It’s a lie I’ve heard time and time again, and it’s one that I don’t believe in. In fact, I think it’s easier to make money honestly, and it has a much higher vibration.

I know this from personal experience. When I separated from my ex-husband six years ago, I had nothing. I was fully financially dependent on him, and I realized that if he stopped paying for the kids’ school fees, I wouldn’t be able to support them. I was pushed to be aware of my finances, and it was a tough lesson to learn.

For the next year, I lived off my savings, but it quickly ran out. When I found out about my ex-husband’s affair and filed for divorce, he played the financial card, and I had no money. I sold everything I had, but by the end of 2017, I still had nothing.

But things changed for me. I started a coaching business, went into property, and expanded further and further. I worked really hard, and yes, I did long hours. But I did it honestly, and it paid off.

Within four and a half years, I now have multiple successful businesses, and I’m very well off. I live in a affluent area, my kids are doing well in private education, and I’m in the seven-figure mark. And I did it all through honest means.

I believe that making money through high vibration is key. You have to be earning it honestly, and you have to be providing a good or service that benefits others. It brings financial abundance, happiness, joy, and health. And it’s a very good place to be.

So if you’re told that the only way to make money quickly is through illegal means, don’t believe it. Focus on earning high vibrational money honestly, and success will follow.

The Fifth Lie: Money is the ultimate solution to all of life’s problems

Money is often seen as the ultimate solution to all of life’s problems. Many people believe that if they just had more money, all their problems would disappear. However, this is far from the truth. In fact, believing that money is the answer to all of life’s problems is one of the biggest lies out there.

I have seen this misconception time and time again. People believe that making more money will solve all of their problems, but in reality, they must take ownership of their problems and understand their root causes. More often than not, they can solve these issues without more money. While having more money might make life easier, it is not a cure-all for life’s problems.

For instance, if someone’s relationship with their spouse is in turmoil, they may blame it on money problems. However, the real issue is a lack of communication and companionship. No amount of money can solve that. Similarly, if someone’s health is poor, they may believe that more money will help them exercise and eat better. But even if they can’t afford a private trainer or expensive fad diet, they can still take small steps to improve their health.

Money should not be the focus of one’s life. It is not a god, and it should not be worshipped. While money can make life easier, it should not be blamed for all of life’s problems. Money should be a friend, not a foe. It helps us experience the world in a better way, and it should be used to enhance our lives, not consume them.

I encourage everyone to work on their mindset and develop a healthy relationship with money. Attending workshops, reading books, and listening to podcasts can be great resources for developing a healthy mindset around money. But ultimately, it is up to us to take responsibility for our problems and work towards solving them. More money may or may not help, but it is not a solution in and of itself.

In conclusion, money is not the solution to all of life’s problems. It can make life easier, but it should not be blamed for all of life’s difficulties. We must take ownership of our problems and work towards solving them. Developing a healthy relationship with money can be a great step towards living a fulfilling and happy life.

CONCLUSION

As we come to the end of our journey together, it’s clear that the lies we believe about money can be harmful and hold us back from achieving financial freedom. However, by recognizing these five common myths and challenging them, we can begin to shift our perspective and take control of our financial future.

Remember, money doesn’t always need more money, and it’s not as hard to make or keep as we may have been led to believe. There are legal and ethical ways to increase our income and build wealth, without resorting to illegal means. And while money can provide us with security and comfort, it’s important to acknowledge that it’s not the ultimate solution to all of life’s problems.

By taking an honest look at our relationship with money and working to break free from these common lies, we can begin to live a more abundant and fulfilling life. So, let’s say goodbye to these five money myths once and for all, and embrace a new way of thinking that empowers us to achieve our financial goals and live the life we truly desire.

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/Umy0VH4Q37g

Masculine Energy and it’s Impact on Money

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In our society, we often hear phrases like “be a man” or “man up,” which have become synonymous with being tough, independent, and successful. These attributes are often associated with masculine energy, which is believed to be a driving force behind many individuals’ success in their careers and personal lives. However, when it comes to the topic of money, does masculine energy really have an impact?

Today, we’re diving into the topic of masculine energy and its impact on money. As you know, our mindset plays a huge role in how we approach money, and understanding the different energies that influence our mindset can help us create a healthy relationship with money. Whether you’re a man or woman, understanding the impact of masculine energy on money can provide valuable insights into how you approach your finances and set yourself up for financial success. So, let’s dive in and explore the intriguing relationship between masculine energy and money.

WHAT IS MASCULINE ENERGY ?

First, let’s define what we mean by masculine energy. Masculine energy is a term used to describe certain characteristics and traits that are typically associated with men but can also be exhibited by women. These traits are often described as assertive, confident, and goal-oriented.

Examples of masculine energy include being competitive, taking risks, and being decisive. Masculine energy is often seen as a driving force behind success in both personal and professional life, including financial success. However, it’s important to note that masculine energy is not limited to men, and women can also exhibit these traits.

 

UNDERSTANDING MASCULINE ENERGY IN RELATION TO MONEY 

Masculine energy in relation to money is often characterized by assertiveness, confidence, and a results-driven mentality. This energy can be harnessed to achieve financial goals and create a sense of financial security.

While masculine energy can be helpful in achieving financial success, it’s important not to rely solely on this energy. An overemphasis on masculine energy can lead to an imbalanced approach to money management, neglecting important areas of life such as personal relationships and well-being.

By balancing masculine and feminine energies in money management, individuals can achieve financial success while also maintaining a sense of fulfillment and balance in their lives.

 

CHARACTERISTICS OF MASCULINE ENERGY AND ITS IMPACT ON MONEY 

1. ASSERTIVENESS

One of the key characteristics of masculine energy is assertiveness. This trait is often associated with confidence and can be a game-changer when it comes to negotiating higher salaries or better deals for your business.

When you approach negotiations with a sense of assertiveness, you’re able to demonstrate your authority and competence, showing others that you have what it takes to get the job done. This is especially important for entrepreneurs and business owners who need to prove themselves to clients and employees alike.

Of course, there’s a fine line between being assertive and being bossy or rude. But with a healthy balance of masculine energy, you can walk that line with grace and finesse. You can assert your authority without coming across as aggressive or overbearing, creating a professional environment where everyone feels valued and respected.

By embracing your masculine energy and using it to your advantage, you can become a confident and effective leader, driving financial success and achieving your goals along the way.

2. GOAL ORIENTATION

Masculine energy is often associated with goal orientation, and this can be a powerful driving force for financial success. When we embody healthy masculine energy, we tend to focus on achieving goals and results, which can lead to a greater drive to succeed financially.

This is because setting financial goals is crucial to achieving financial success, whether it’s building a six-figure business or a seven-figure empire.

In my experience, I’ve noticed that men who embody healthy masculine energy tend to set higher financial goals for themselves compared to those who struggle with their masculine energy. It’s not that setting high financial goals is exclusive to men, but rather that healthy masculine energy tends to foster a mindset of ambition and drive towards success.

This is why it’s relevant to embody your masculine energy and set solid, high financial goals. Without the drive and determination to achieve these goals, it’s easy to get sidetracked and lose sight of what’s important. Masculine energy can help us stay focused on our goals and push through challenges and setbacks along the way.

 

3. RATIONALITY

Rationality is a characteristic of healthy masculine energy that cannot be overlooked when it comes to achieving financial success. It involves the ability to think logically, analyze information, and make informed decisions.

Men are generally known to have a higher degree of rational thinking than women, but this does not mean that women cannot embody this trait as well. However, women need to be aware that their rational thinking may not always be at its best due to hormonal fluctuations during certain times of the month.

As a female, it is important not to shy away from this characteristic of masculine energy. You may not always be able to think rationally, but this does not mean that you cannot strive to embody rationality whenever possible. If you find yourself unable to make a rational decision, seek advice from those around you who have healthy masculine energy. This can help you to gain perspective and make a more informed decision.

Being aware of your strengths and weaknesses is key to achieving success, and rationality is no exception. Plan ahead and seek help if necessary. This will help you to maintain a level of rationality that will allow you to achieve your financial goals.

4. INDEPENDENCE

The fourth characteristic of healthy masculine energy is independence. Men with healthy masculine energy tend to prioritize independence and self-reliance, which often translates into a strong desire to achieve financial independence. This drive for independence is a true beauty of healthy masculine energy, and it is something that many women who strive for success and financial stability also crave.

Remember that seeking financial independence does not mean giving up one’s feminine energy. In fact, this aspect of masculine energy can be a powerful tool in supporting women who seek financial freedom. It is empowering for women to be able to rely on themselves and their own abilities to achieve their goals, and this is where independence comes into play.

It is important to note, however, that independence should not be pursued to the point of isolation. Healthy masculine energy recognizes the importance of interdependence and the value of supportive relationships. Men and women alike can benefit from seeking out healthy relationships that encourage personal growth and support the pursuit of independence while maintaining a sense of community.

5. RISK- TAKING

If you have healthy masculine energy, you’re able to take calculated risks, which can lead to greater financial gains. But on the flip side, it can also result in greater financial losses. The key here is to take calculated risks, not just jumping into things blindly without thinking things through.

Taking calculated risks is a crucial aspect of healthy masculine energy. It requires taking a solid, rational look at the pros and cons of a situation, and making a decision based on the numbers and facts in front of you. Everything in life involves some level of risk-taking, and the only time you don’t take risks is when you’re not truly living.

It’s worth noting that men tend to embody this aspect of masculine energy more frequently than women. This could be a contributing factor to why men tend to take more financial risks and have higher rates of entrepreneurship than women. However, this is not to say that women cannot embody this trait. In fact, many successful women in business and finance have achieved great success by taking calculated risks.

Taking risks can be scary, but it’s essential for growth and success. The key is to be strategic and make informed decisions based on data and analysis. So, if you want to be successful, whether you’re a man or a woman, it’s important to develop a healthy sense of masculine energy and be willing to take calculated risks.

6. COMPETITIVE

Masculine energy tends to have a competitive nature, which can lead to a strong desire to outperform others financially. This drive to be better than others is not unique to men, as both men and women can experience it. However, the healthy aspect of this masculine energy trait is that it provides the incentive to push oneself harder, to get out of one’s comfort zone, and take calculated risks.

It’s easy to fall into a routine of going to work, making money, and then coming home to binge-watch the latest TV series. But when you tap into your competitive nature, you’ll find that you want more out of life. You want to be the best version of yourself, to not be left behind, to have the car, the house, the vacation, or whatever else it is that you desire.

But competition doesn’t have to be limited to material possessions. It can also drive you to pursue more profound and meaningful goals, such as making an impact in the world. Perhaps you want to start a charity or a foundation, build schools in impoverished areas, or provide clean drinking water to communities in need. Whatever it is, the competitive nature of healthy masculine energy can give you the push you need to achieve your dreams.

Of course, like any trait, competition can have its negative aspects. It can lead to unhealthy comparisons with others, jealousy, and a narrow focus on material success. But when balanced with other traits such as compassion and collaboration, competition can be a powerful tool for achieving your goals and making a positive impact on the world.

7. DECISIVNESS

Decisiveness is a trait that is often associated with the masculine energy. It involves the ability to make quick and effective decisions, while also having the courage to stand by those decisions. In the business world, this is a crucial quality to possess, as it can mean the difference between success and failure.

As a woman, I have learned the value of decisiveness from my own mother, who was a master at making quick and effective decisions. When I am in my feminine energy, I find that I often struggle with indecision and hesitation. However, when I tap into my masculine energy, I am able to make decisions with clarity and purpose.

It’s important to note that being decisive doesn’t always mean that every decision will be the right one. In fact, making mistakes is a necessary part of the learning process. However, what separates successful people from unsuccessful people is the ability to learn from their mistakes and adjust their course accordingly.

Ultimately, the ability to make quick and effective decisions is a trait that can be cultivated by both men and women. It requires a willingness to take risks and the courage to stand by one’s decisions, even in the face of adversity. By embodying the masculine energy of decisiveness, we can all become more successful in our personal and professional lives.

8. STRATEGIC THINKING

Strategic thinking is a masculine energy trait, characterized by directness and a goal-oriented approach. While feminine energy tends to be emotional and intuitive, this can sometimes hinder rational decision-making. For example, I have found that whenever I have allowed my emotions to influence my business decisions, I have ended up losing out on deals. I have now learned the importance of being clear-cut and focused on the numbers.

Learning to detach oneself emotionally from business decisions is a vital lesson for female business owners. This means focusing on the numbers, analyzing the viability of a deal, and being unafraid to walk away if the criteria are not met. It may seem daunting at first, but strategic thinking is a skill that can be developed over time.

Ultimately, embracing strategic thinking allows us to make informed decisions that are not clouded by emotions. By embodying this trait, we can approach business with a clear mind and a sharp focus, which is essential for success in today’s competitive marketplace.

9. LEADERSHIP

Leadership is a crucial aspect of financial decision making and management, and it’s often associated with mastering energy. To become a great leader, you need to embody both feminine and masculine energy, but when it comes to leading, being in your masculine energy is crucial.

Historically, the most successful leaders have embodied masculine energy, whether they were male or female. It’s not about being harsh or rude; it’s about being assertive, making quick decisions, and standing firm in them. Leaders must make difficult decisions, and the more responsibility they have, the more masculine energy they need to embody.

Women have been kept in the past to be sweet and soft, while men have been expected to be harsher and more assertive. But these gender roles are becoming blurred, and any woman who wants to be a successful leader must embody elements of masculine energy. Men, too, need to embrace their masculine energy and not shy away from it. It’s not about getting rid of feminine energy altogether; there are benefits to that as well.

But in the space of being a leader, embracing masculine energy is crucial. You can still be softly spoken and embody masculine energy, and it will help you make better decisions and lead your business to success. So, embrace your masculine energy and become a great leader, regardless of your gender.

10. CONFIDENCE

The master energy of confidence is a force to be reckoned with, emanating a sense of control and assurance that can pave the way to greater financial success through effective networking and sales. But how does one cultivate confidence? It all starts with believing in oneself. When we exude confidence, it speaks for itself, conveying a sense of conviction and assurance that is not lost on those around us. On the other hand, if we lack confidence, this too will be picked up subconsciously by others, hindering our ability to make meaningful connections and achieve our goals.

So, what can we do to bolster our confidence? It may sound cliché, but the saying “fake it till you make it” holds some truth. This doesn’t mean we should be disingenuous or dishonest about our abilities, but rather, we should embody the belief that we are capable of anything we set our minds to.

One exercise that can be particularly effective in building confidence is the mirror exercise. When faced with a daunting task or challenge, take a few moments to stand in front of a mirror and convince yourself that you can do it. By believing in yourself and embodying a positive, healthy, masculine energy, you can inspire others to have confidence in you as well, paving the way to success. Of course, doubts and fears are natural and can sometimes lead to imposter syndrome, especially for women. But by cultivating confidence from within and leading ourselves to believe that we can achieve our goals, we can overcome these doubts and fears and achieve great things.

CONCLUSION

In conclusion, we’ve explored the fascinating relationship between masculine energy and money. Masculine energy, with its focus on independence, strength, and drive, can be a powerful force in helping individuals achieve success in their careers and personal lives. However, as we’ve seen, this same energy can also lead to an overemphasis on competition, risk-taking, and short-term gains, which can be detrimental to our long-term financial well-being.

The key to harnessing the positive aspects of masculine energy while avoiding its pitfalls is balance. By cultivating a healthy relationship with our finances and recognizing the role that both masculine and feminine energies play in our approach to money, we can create a more holistic and sustainable financial mindset.

Remember, being financially successful isn’t just about being tough and independent. It’s about having the right mindset, taking calculated risks, and making smart decisions that align with our values and long-term goals. By embracing a balanced approach to money, we can harness the power of both masculine and feminine energies and achieve financial success on our own terms.

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/IxqrmuAS3tw

 

Women, Money, and Feminine Energy

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In today’s world, both men and women face unique challenges when it comes to managing their finances while nurturing their personal lives. Women often struggle with balancing their careers and family life, while men may find it difficult to maintain their role as providers and protectors. However, with the right mindset and strategies, it is possible to take control of your financial well-being while nurturing your personal life. As a money mindset coach, I believe it’s crucial for women to understand the relationship between money and their feminine energy. In this post, I’ll share my personal experiences with financial abuse and finding balance between my femininity and financial independence.

The Importance of Understanding the Relationship Between Women, Money, and Feminine Energy

The way we perceive money is deeply intertwined with our beliefs about ourselves and our worth as women. Society has taught us that money is a symbol of power and success, and for a long time, women were not encouraged to take control of their finances. However, things are changing, and it’s now more important than ever for women to understand the role that money plays in their lives and how it’s linked to their feminine energy.

Money and femininity are not mutually exclusive. Women can be feminine and powerful, and they can also be financially independent. In fact, embracing your femininity can help you be more successful with money. As women, we have unique skills and traits that can help us succeed, such as empathy, intuition, and collaboration.

To understand the relationship between women, money, and feminine energy, it’s essential to first understand your own relationship with money. Take some time to reflect on your beliefs about money and where they come from. Are you comfortable talking about money? Do you feel confident making financial decisions? By understanding your own relationship with money, you can start to see how it’s linked to your feminine energy.

 

My Personal Experiences with Financial Abuse and Finding Balance  

I’ve experienced financial abuse from both my first and second husbands, which has made me realize the importance of financial independence. In my first marriage, my husband became highly abusive and controlling towards me and our finances because he was uncomfortable with me being the breadwinner. In my second marriage, my husband forced me to accept his girlfriend as his second wife, and I had to give up my financial independence to keep a roof over my head.

These experiences have taught me the importance of finding a balance between my femininity and financial independence. It’s essential to embrace my feminine energy while also taking control of my finances. I’ve learned that financial independence is not just about providing for myself but also having the freedom to live my life on my terms.

The Power of Feminine Energy in Financial Planning

Feminine energy is a powerful force that has the potential to transform every aspect of our lives, including our finances. Feminine energy is often associated with nurturing, intuition, creativity, and collaboration. It is a force that helps us connect with our emotions and inner wisdom, which enables us to make better decisions.

In financial planning, feminine energy can help us create a balanced and holistic approach to our finances. It can help us connect with our values and priorities, which enables us to make better financial decisions. Additionally, feminine energy can help us develop healthy relationships with money and overcome any limiting beliefs that prevent us from achieving financial success.

Embracing Your Feminine Energy While Taking Control of Your Finances

Many women struggle with the idea of financial independence because they fear that it might make them seem less feminine or even threaten their relationships. However, it’s essential to understand that financial independence doesn’t have to compromise your femininity or your relationships. Instead, it can be a source of empowerment and freedom that allows you to take charge of your life on your own terms.

To achieve this balance, it’s crucial to understand the role that feminine energy plays in our financial lives. Feminine energy is often associated with qualities such as empathy, compassion, intuition, and nurturing. These qualities can be extremely beneficial in managing our finances, such as having empathy for others’ financial situations or using intuition to make sound financial decisions.

At the same time, it’s important not to allow these qualities to make you vulnerable to financial abuse or manipulation. It’s essential to be assertive, set boundaries, and stand up for yourself when it comes to your finances. This doesn’t mean you have to be aggressive or masculine, but rather assertive in a way that’s true to your feminine energy.

One way to embrace both your femininity and financial independence is by reframing the way you view money. Instead of seeing it as a source of power or control, see it as a tool that can be used to create the life you desire. By doing so, you can align your financial goals with your values and use your money to create a life that feels authentic and fulfilling.

Another way to balance feminine energy and financial independence is by seeking out support and resources that align with your values. For example, finding a financial advisor who understands the importance of balancing femininity and financial independence can be extremely beneficial. Additionally, surrounding yourself with a community of like-minded women who share your values can provide a supportive and empowering environment to help you achieve your financial goals.

Balancing Career Breaks

Career breaks can be beneficial for women who have children, as it can provide them with the time and space to concentrate on their personal life. However, it’s essential to balance this break with your career, especially when it comes to finances. Women who take a career break may face challenges when returning to work, such as earning less or being overlooked for promotions.

It’s important to ensure that you’re financially stable during your career break, and this can be achieved through saving and investing. By developing a financial plan and being disciplined with your money, you can ensure that you have the financial resources you need during your break and when you return to work.

It’s also essential to create a relaxed environment during your career break, especially if you have children. Stressful situations, such as reading depositions while trying to put a baby to sleep, can negatively affect both you and your child. It’s important to prioritize your personal life during this time and ensure that you have a healthy work-life balance.

Embracing Masculine Energy as a Provider and Protector

For men, there comes a time when you need to be the provider and protector of your family. It’s essential to educate yourself about money and develop the right understanding of it. Both men and women need to have a healthy relationship with money at certain periods in their lives.

For men, regardless of age, it’s time to step into your masculine energy and fulfill your role as a provider and protector. Being responsible for the financial well-being of your family can be a significant source of pride and fulfillment.

Developing a Healthy Relationship with Money

Your relationship with money is crucial in achieving financial independence. Many people grow up with certain beliefs and attitudes towards money that may be limiting and prevent them from achieving their financial goals. This is where working on your money mindset comes in.

It involves identifying and letting go of any limiting beliefs you have about money and adopting new, positive beliefs that align with your financial goals.

For example, if you have a belief that “money is the root of all evil,” it may be challenging to achieve financial success because your subconscious mind will always be working against you. You can replace this belief with a positive one such as “money is a tool to create a better life for myself and my loved ones.”

Developing a healthy relationship with money involves understanding that money is not just about accumulation, but about the positive impact it can have on your life and the lives of others. When you view money as a tool to create a fulfilling life, it becomes easier to manage it and make decisions that align with your financial goals.

Another way to develop a healthy relationship with money is by practicing gratitude. Focus on what you have, rather than what you don’t have. This helps you cultivate a sense of abundance and attract more prosperity into your life.

Additionally, it’s crucial to develop a financial plan that aligns with your values and priorities. This plan should include short-term and long-term financial goals, a budget, and a plan for unexpected expenses.

 

Conclusion

Understanding money and how it relates to different periods in our lives is crucial for our financial well-being. It’s essential to educate ourselves about money, take care of ourselves during career breaks, and embrace our feminine or masculine energy as appropriate. By doing so, we can achieve financial success and fulfillment while living our lives to the fullest.

Achieving financial independence is possible for anyone, regardless of their gender. However, as a woman, it’s essential to understand the relationship between money and feminine energy and find a balance between the two.

This involves embracing your femininity while also taking control of your finances, becoming financially literate, working on your money mindset, and developing a healthy relationship with money. Additionally, surrounding yourself with a supportive community can help you stay motivated and on track towards your financial goals.

Remember, achieving financial independence is not just about the numbers, but about creating a balanced and fulfilling life that aligns with your values and priorities.

 Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/ZuHLbxpjtz8

 

Hope Fuels Faith

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 Today we will be discussing hope, how hope fuels your faith, why faith is important to your belief, and why believing is an essential ingredient needed for your manifestation journey. 

 

How hope fuels your faith

   It is important that you have enough hope- fueled faith to believe that you can achieve all the things you have dreamt about for yourself, no matter what area of your life these dreams are related to.

When those moments of doubt from the devil creep into your life, it is essential that you have strong faith in your beliefs and for this faith to be as firm as you need, you need to have hope. Personally, when I am at my lowest or darkest moments, I turn to prayers more than anything else naturally because that connection with the divine reinforces my hope in God and the plans he has for my life which helps recharge my faith that everything I am manifesting will fall into place according to divine timing. 

   Many religions – and even those who do not believe in God – have specific times of prayers or periods when the world is quiet, you can put your worldly thoughts aside, sit through meditation and connect with divine energy.

Connecting to divine energy gives you peace because now you have hope that your manifestations and prayers are going to come true. When you meditate, you are able to connect to your higher self and to what you are desiring for yourself and regardless of what path you take, you have hope that whatever you are creating and manifesting is going to happen.   

 

God is looking out for you 

   You need to truly believe that divine energy is looking out for you and everything you are hoping for is going to happen for you; God is looking out for you and as long as you have faith that allows you to believe daily, you will be able to overcome the doubts that creep into your mind when you are facing tough situations on your manifestation journey. 

I have always thought Bollywood actor, Shah Rukh Khan, is an amazing person who really embodies everything about the law of attraction and manifesting the life you want for yourself; generally he is very honest and upfront about how he achieved things and what you should do to reach the success that he has been able to reach.

I listened to an interview he did where someone asked if he thought the three films he did before he took a four-year sabbatical for health reasons would be successful and he replied that he believed that every single one of them is going to be a super duper hit; he said ‘I’m not saying this to be arrogant but this is the belief that I hold. And it’s a belief that I go to sleep with, it’s a belief that I wake up with, and it’s a belief that I walk around with and I thought, absolutely fantastic’ and this is how every one of us is supposed to be believing.

When the movie came out after this interview, it ended up breaking box office records and making large amounts of money not just because of how great he is at marketing (because he did a lot of amazing marketing for the movie and was able to cover his costs for it even before the film came out) but because of the belief he already had in the project.

Shah Rukh Khan has always had complete belief in himself and in his dreams and aspirations for as long as I have seen him in Bollywood and this is something we all can learn from and aspire to do in our own lives every day; even when it does not look like things are working out right now they will happen eventually according to divine timing as long as you believe in yourself and in universal energy. 

 

Believe in yourself      

   You do not have to be the best at everything to achieve your goals, you just have to believe in yourself and whatever you are manifesting for your life; The one thing that you need to have for you to be ultimately financially successful, successful in relationships or successful in any area of your life is faith in the dreams and aspirations you have for yourself.

Do not ever allow yourself to think about the opposite of your dreams or doubt that any of your manifestations will come true, if you truly believe in yourself with all your heart and mind you will be able to achieve anything you desire.

   When you believe you can do something, you work harder to achieve it and become more motivated to try harder to reach that goal you are believing in.

Give it your best with the belief that you are going to succeed then mountains begin to be moved for you, the universe contrives and gives you everything you want; when you really want something the whole universe conspires to give you that which you are desiring for yourself and this is what the law of attraction is all about.

You may not have the same talents or opportunities as someone else but you cannot let that derail you from the manifestations you have planned for your life, as long as you are able to believe in yourself and your abilities you will succeed. 

You have to start figuring out how to instill yourself to have this belief and to have this belief, you have to have faith in a higher power no matter what your religion is. When you believe in a higher power it allows you to have faith and this faith gives you hope to solidify your belief that everything is going to work out for your success.  

 

Conclusion

Make sure that you have a ritual, prayer, or meditation that gives you hope every day and this hope fuels your faith in divine energy or whatever higher power you believe in. Shah Rukh Khan believed in his dreams, worked for them, and was able to achieve them over and over again; no matter how much effort you put into something, if you do not have the belief it will not work out the way you have envisioned it to work out. 

If you do not believe in your dreams and continuously allow doubt to cloud your mind, you will never be able to achieve them no matter the amount of effort you put into it.

Hard work is important but believing that you can achieve your goals is much more important; if there is anything you want to achieve in life you have to believe with here atom of your being that it has already happened for you and the universe is bringing things together for it to come into fruition for you to receive in the physical world. 

 

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/Qp9jX1qVgSs

 

 

5 Steps to Changing Any Beliefs

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Today we will be discussing the five steps you need to follow in order to change your beliefs and ultimately, your lives.

How to change your beliefs

I have taught on the three steps to manifesting and how the second – and most important- step is truly believing in your manifestation. A famous quote by Henry Ford that has stuck with me since I began my entrepreneurial journey said ‘If you believe you can then you can and if you believe you can’t then you can’t ‘ and it was with this that I realized that the beliefs we have as humans are very important; As it says in the Bible, ask for something and if you believe it will be given to you, and in the Quran, I am to my servant as he expects me to be meaning when you believe something then definitely it will be true for you.

Now that we have discussed the importance of beliefs, how do we identify and change these beliefs? As I began to look at my manifestation journey and the work that I do, I have realized that we create a new reality by generating and adapting new beliefs. I was speaking to the members of my mastermind during the question & answer session today and I told one of them that if she can believe in her heart that she can earn a hundred thousand then that is the amount she will start to earn in her bank account; the amount of time this would take is not the problem because in truth you have the ability to collapse time as long as you have the deep conviction to do so. If you have true belief in your manifestation, then that will be the reality that will show up for you.

Five Steps To Changing One’s Beliefs

These are methods that I personally have used at various points in my life, especially whenever I think I am not succeeding at something or something is not going well for example, I realized that even though I had a good relationship with money, my relationship with time was lacking so to improve that I needed to make some changes to the current beliefs I have concerning time.

1. Identify the areas you would like to work on.

If you do not focus on the specific section of your life that you need to change, you end up creating beliefs on various random parts instead. Now how do you get to these core beliefs? Identify the center of the particular area you want to work on and the more focused you are on that specific, the more you allow your mind to focus on beliefs about it. Using money as our area of focus, if you currently make a hundred thousand a month then there is nothing stopping you from making that same amount daily; the universe does not see the numbers when we are dealing with money but rather the changes in our energies regarding money.

2. Write down all your beliefs about this area.

One thing that has helped me on multiple occasions regarding this is whenever I get new ideas, I set a timer for five minutes and write down as much as I can without lifting my pen for this period of time. When you do this you find out that your logical mind, for the first few minutes, has empowering views of money before your subconscious mind begins to think about all the reasons making money would be a difficult task. By the time the timer goes off, you will realize that your conscious mind has given you amazing money beliefs for your new reality.

3. Read through the beliefs you have written.

When you look through the beliefs you have written during those five minutes, you will realize that you should be able to identify about two to five core beliefs that summarize all your other beliefs. This helps you analyze how your mind works and what core beliefs rule your subconscious mind and is creating your reality that your conscious mind is not aware of.

4. Create the opposite of the core beliefs you already have.

These will be your new set of beliefs. If one of your core beliefs is there is not enough time in the day to make the amount of money you would like to make daily, then your new core belief should be that you need a new system that would allow you to make this type of income in that short period. So you do not need to work ten times harder, you just have to find a different way of working to achieve your aforementioned goal.

The amount I make working shorter hours now with ease is almost ten times more than the amount I made working longer hours when I was a lawyer because I had not created the system that worked best for me yet; My conviction was that I could not only do this but do it differently and it was with this that I was able to create the reality I am living today; If the core beliefs you currently have are not working then try the opposite of these beliefs till you reach a system that works better and easier for you. Before you can create a new reality you need to have the belief to back it up.

5. Embody your new beliefs and make them part of your energy system.

This step is the hardest part. There are several modalities like EFT, energy healings, energy clearing, NLP techniques etcetera; generally, I believe any manifesting technique is about reprogramming your new beliefs and creating a new reality from the new sets of beliefs that you have. In order to embody these new beliefs in your energy field and make your convictions, I would recommend doing your personal research using books, mediations, teachings etcetera.

My favorite one is energy clearing and in my masterminds, I teach about using this method to help connect you to life as well as take out the energy in your old beliefs and put them into new beliefs; energy clearing is repeating this clearing continuously over the next few weeks until these new beliefs get embodied into your energy field. This causes you to start thinking differently from a new portal belief system rather than the old one and in turn, is why we get quicker results because the faster you instill a new belief, the faster your new reality begins to show up in your physical world.

Conclusion

Focus on yourself and your beliefs; The quicker you can change your beliefs, the quicker you will be able to create a new reality for yourself. Find new techniques and modalities that can help you identify and instill new beliefs in yourself. Change your beliefs and create a new reality for yourself to make your manifestations a part of your physical world.

Being the Best Version Of Yourself

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Today we are going to be discussing you and how you can be the best version of yourself.

 

Stop Comparing Yourself

One of the biggest problems we face during our journey to wealth is comparing ourselves to others. We tend to believe that the other person is doing better than we are, for one reason or the other, and this is why we end up coming short of ourselves. However, I need you to understand that you are unique; there is no one else in the world more important than you and if you can focus more on bettering yourself rather than on what others are doing you will surely reach all the goals you are manifesting for yourself.

Regardless of the shortcomings and weaknesses you believe you have, you are still the most amazing being on this planet because there is only one you. There is no one like you in the world, no matter how hard they try to be and if identical twins end up having their differences from each other why would you want to be the same as anyone else? All the skills and abilities that you need to fulfill your life’s purpose have already been given to you by divine energy, the problem is that you are too busy so busy comparing yourself to the people around you that you cannot see them.

Personally, I am severely dyslexic and because of this there are various challenges I have to overcome every day such as speaking slowly however I cannot compare myself to someone who speaks more eloquently than I do because they are not facing the same situations I am. We all have our likes and dislikes, the things we prefer and the things we do not, and this is perfectly normal; stop trying to please everyone and instead accept who you are and what you can do. Build on your strengths and work on your shortcomings because truthfully no one is perfect.

Accept Yourself As You Are

Just like everyone else, you have your flaws and faults but if you do not accept yourself wholly then you will not be able to allow others to love and accept you as well. You can not expect other people to appreciate you when you do not appreciate yourself. No matter how much you emulate and imitate someone, you can never be that person nor can you truly be anyone other than yourself; if you spend your life trying to be a copy of someone else then you will end up miserable and unfulfilled because it simply is not possible.

It is your responsibility to be the best and most unique version of yourself possible, continuously being a better you daily because there is no one else who can be you not even a clone of yourself. Various things have made you who you are today – the choices you made, the paths you have chosen, the thoughts you have had, the circumstances you have undergone etcetera, and these specific quirks that makeup who you are cannot be emulated by anyone else on the planet. You are a unique being and no one can ever be you.

Everything you are going through in life is to prepare you for your next level. Your previous experiences have armed you with particular skills, abilities, and personality traits that you will need for the next level of your evolution. Just like in a video game, the next stage in our life is always going to be harder but the reward you earn from it is usually bigger than the last. When challenges arise you can choose to let them make you a bitter or better person; I heard a saying once that said ‘I asked God for strength and then he gave me challenges which required me to have strength. I asked God for faith and then he gave me certain circumstances where faith was the only option’ this applies to our daily lives because challenges will always come but how you allow these circumstances to affect you will determine whether you are growing or deteriorating.

You Are A Masterpiece

Everything you are going through in this life is shaping you into the masterpiece that you are destined to be. Whether you accept it or not, universal energy believes you are a work of art and that you deserve every good thing you want for yourself in this life but to reach this point, you have to go through various trials which will test your unique abilities and gifts; for example, a two hundred meter sprinter can run a marathon and a marathon runner can run a two hundred meter sprint but they each have their unique abilities which make them suited or their own races. Where a two-hundred-meter sprinter has more speed, a marathon runner has more stamina and longevity and these specific skills are what make them both great at their tasks.

Stop trying to copy people. You can be inspired by the work of someone else and learn new skills from them but in the end, you have to do something unique to you. God has a purpose for you that can not be fulfilled by anyone else on this planet, you are his amazing masterpiece and he did not create you by mistake. There is a plan for every one of us and even though we do not have the mental capacity to truly understand this plan, we must trust that universal energy knows what they are doing and that their timing is always right.

As we start this new year, make a promise to yourself to stop negative speech, especially self-speech. Whenever you feel those dark, low feelings do not voice them out, instead speak positive things into your life and allow yourself to be grateful to universal energy for making you their masterpiece. Comparing yourself to someone else is like comparing a cat, who has its specific skills for its own specific circumstances, to a fish which also has the same for its own unique purpose; Do not devalue yourself because you believe someone else is doing better than you are, you are amazing and even though you are a work in progress you are still a masterpiece.

Conclusion

Stop treating yourself like a second-class citizen and instead work on the things you believe you need to be better at for yourself, not for anyone else. Learn that skill you want to learn, try new hobbies, work on handling your emotions better and on any other shortcoming you believe you have to fix.

There are so many amazing things in your life, stop focusing on the one or two issues that you are facing and start accepting that you are an amazing individual with unique abilities and talents that make you who you are. Stop focusing on the black dot on the whiteboard and instead look at the massive amount of white that is left – you are amazing, you are a gift from God, you are a masterpiece and a few flaws do not change that fact. There is a reason you have been given this life at this moment so instead of putting yourself down and being negative towards yourself, find your purpose and believe in the plan that God has for your life.
Love and appreciate who divine energy has made you be and do not be a cheap copy of someone else.

Welcoming the new year by reflecting on last year

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Today we will be discussing how to move on from last year – celebrating what we achieved and the lessons we learned – while welcoming and setting your targets for the new year.

Welcome to the new year

It seems like we were just celebrating Christmas in 2021 and now, in the blink of an eye, we are in 2023. Last year was a challenging year for me because there were a lot of things that I had to deal with in my personal life; this affected my professional life as well because I had to give most of my attention to my family and personal life during these trying times however thanks to divine energy I am still able to look back at last year with a sense of achievement and fulfillment that surprises even me.

Although I did not advance as much professionally last year, I was able to grow a lot as a person and I am truly grateful for everything that I learned in 2022. Similarly, you need to give yourself space to reflect on the previous year not based on the amount of money you made or other external factors but to look inwards and appreciate everything that you survived to get to where you are today. Allow yourself to meditate on the ups and downs that you had to handle in 2022 and to grow holistically not just focusing on the financial aspect of your advancement in life; If your sole purpose in life is to only grow financially then you are living an empty life.

The main success of life is not the monetary desires you have for yourself but who you become to achieve these goals. When I look at my last year financially, I realize it was very similar to 2021 meaning I did not grow much in that aspect last year mostly due to certain unforeseen circumstances in my personal life but even though I had to deal with different disappointments last year I dealt with all of them and came out on top which is why I can come here to celebrate today.

Celebrate your wins, no matter how small

Celebrate the times when you were able to overcome the challenges in your life and achieved things you never thought you would be able to achieve. One of the first things that happened to me around April last year was that I was involved in a terrible buggy accident while I was in Turkey, it was such a severe accident that I fell unconscious and I was so sure I had lost both my knees at a point. What surprised me the most though was the amount of strength I was able to show during the situation especially because my son was there and I was determined not to let him feel like he was responsible for the situation I was dealing with, regardless of the pain I was going through I needed to make sure that he did not grow up with the guilt of feeling he was to blame for the situation. Thank God nothing drastic happened to my leg.

As parents, we subconsciously try our best to make sure our children are living their lives happily and healthily yet we always end up second-guessing ourselves and looking for ways to do more for them, especially as working mothers. So I am proud of how I handled that situation and I am proud of my children and how they were able to rise to the occasion and support me during my healing process. That was one of my biggest achievements of 2022; even though it added nothing to me monetarily, I was able to show the true strength of my character and be a good example for my children by getting through the situation. Value who you are and what you were able to achieve last year and the years before that, trust universal energy and let them continue to lead you down the path of who you are becoming; personally, I rely on Allah for everything no matter how big or small the situation is and because of this I am becoming the type of person I can be proud of.

Be proud of yourself

Honestly examine the challenging situations you faced and ask yourself how you overcame them. How did you deal with it? What did you learn from the experience? What about that incident made you feel proud of yourself? Celebrate your achievements, congratulate yourself for how you behaved, and be proud of yourself for being able to deal with the situation.

Another big moment in 2022 for me was when my son ended up in the Accident & Emergency and had to have an emergency operation. As a mother, of course, I was very stressed and worried about him but I also made sure that throughout the entire period I was celebrating God’s help and thanking him in advance for his help during our situation. I remained thankful to divine energy from the beginning to the end and I expected God to help me even though times were challenging. Today my son is normal and 100% healthy again.

No matter what I am dealing with, I remain constantly grateful to divine energy and I make sure my faith in them does not falter. Every step of the way, universal energy created a solution for me and in the end, God was able to find a way out for me in the most divine way. The third incident that almost broke me completely was when my daughter ended up in the Accident & Emergency as well in December just after school had closed. She is home now and doing better although they are still checking up on her from time to time however it is no longer a life-or-death situation and for that, I am thankful to God. What made this situation more difficult than my son’s was that I realized I was not as expectant as I was before, for a few hours my faith did falter to the point where I had to let my brother stay with her while I took some time off to control my emotions and be the parent she needed me to be in that moment.

I fell below the personal standards I usually have and instead of believing I ended up crying to divine energy and even being angry about it yet I did not allow myself to wallow in self-criticism for falling short this time; We are all human and we are all having a human experience on earth even though we are spiritual beings so there will always be moments we fall short of the high standards we set for ourselves. When these periods occur, you have to give yourself space to feel those intense emotions and I look back on that moment with maturity instead of self-loathing, instead of judging myself during these moments I can now ask for God’s strength and forgiveness in my times of weakness. So I gave myself enough time to calm down and was able to love myself enough to start behaving like the mother my daughter needed and I expected myself to be. Today I am proud of myself for giving my human side time to feel and even though my faith faltered I was able to bounce back and hold on to divine energy again.

Conclusion

On this journey to wealth you will have moments of doubts, challenges, and disappointments along the way but it is during these periods that you have to continuously ask God to help you overcome them. There will be times you will wonder if your dream is even worth it in the end but you must realize that you are being tested and remain loyal to yourself and to divine energy.
Allow yourself to feel your human emotions and experience both versions of you – the one that handles situations with faith and trust and the one who has meltdowns and whose faith falters sometimes without dwelling in this state. Look at your life and see what you have personally achieved in the past year.

What lessons are you taking from 2022 into 2023 to allow you to develop and grow as a person? How have you grown and how can you use all that you have learned to help others? How can you have an abundant life not just financially but in all areas of your life? Celebrate the good, bad, and ugly of 2022 and allow all that you learned to help you as you move forward on your journey to wealth.

Move On and Let Go For Abundance

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A quote I heard once said ‘There are things that we never want to let go of and people we never want to leave behind but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world but the beginning of a new life” and this caused an energy shift in my life because I recently had to let go of a very close relative of mine and even though it was a difficult decision to make, I have found that this decision has bettered me as a person. The reason I had to let go of this relative of mine was that we were no longer on the same mental plane and even though I still love and respect her, our conversations were beginning to feel toxic to me; actively making the painful decision to pull back and let her go ended up restoring the positive energy that had been missing in my life.

When is it time to let go?

1. When someone’s negativity is rubbing off on you:  No matter how optimistic you are, being surrounded by toxic people can cause their negativity to rub off on you. You are the average of the people you spend time with so to reach your full potential, you need to be surrounded by positive people.

2. When you have grown apart from someone: I have some childhood friends who I had to let go of because our ideas of life were no longer the same, while I am more ambitious and business-minded now most of them are content with their nine-to-five jobs and where they currently are in life. So even though I still love them and wish them well, we are no longer on the same wavelength and no longer share the same core values.


3. When you are unhappy with your circumstances: Sometimes it is good to persevere and keep moving forward even though your situation seems difficult. Other times it is better to cut your losses and move on before things get even more difficult than they already are. Sometime in 2011, I set up a business with my cousin which I ended up having to let go of about two years later due to a lack of clients; even though we had gotten all the accreditations and I had invested so much money, time and energy into this business it ended up not being fruitful. There will be times that you invest in something, in this case a business, and the universe just does not want you to move in that direction but as long as you have faith that things are happening for you and not to you and that universal energy would never give up on you, you will achieve the life you have desired for yourself.

4. When your goals change: When I decided to start a family, I chose to leave my goal of being a lawyer behind and to instead raise my children myself as a stay home mom. After my separation, I became the breadwinner and had to get back to work again to provide for my family; however I did not go back to law even though I had worked so hard to get that degree. My goals in life had changed and I had to let go of my identity as a lawyer in order to pursue all the other goals I have for my life; you have to let go of your old goals and move on to this newer, higher version of yourself who has new goals that are positive for your manifestation journey. If you are in a profession and a higher self is calling towards a different goal, then divine energy is pointing you to the next challenge of achieving the life you manifested for yourself.

5. When fear is holding you back: Part of letting go and moving on is facing the disappointments and mistakes of your past. I have been divorced for about six years now and a question I am always asked is why I have not moved on to another relationship after all this time; at first, I used my children and work as my excuse but I soon realized that I was letting my fear of having another narcissistic abusive partner hold me back from moving forward with a new partner. Whether it is a business or a partnership, you cannot let the bad experiences you have had in the past deter you from reaching your full potential and manifesting the dreams you have for your life.

6. When you are still living in your past: Sometimes we allow ourselves to develop these unrealistic expectations of ourselves, family members, friends, businesses, relationships, etcetera, and when these expectations are not met, we complain about what could have been and how we could have changed our past situations. If you do not allow yourself to let go of the sadness and pain from your past, you will never be able to move forward in your manifestation journey.

7. When you are holding grudges: Old grudges are only capable of hurting you if you allow them to. A grudge I remember having to let go of was one I had been holding against my brother and my sister-in-law; my brother had refused to let me move out of the house until I got married while his wife made it very difficult for me while I lived there and even though I love my brother so much right now our relationship was very different. I had not lived in their house since 2005 but I let myself carry that negative energy for years and was allowing this past event to stop me from moving forward and achieving the life of success that I was manifesting for myself.

8. When you are only seeing the pain from an experience and not the lesson: Everything that happens in your life happens for a reason and if you only allow yourself to see the pain an event has caused you, you will not be able to learn any lessons from these situations. You have to learn to not just let go of the pain of your past but to also let go of the self-made expectations you could not meet and forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made. Let the pain go and embrace the lessons you learned from the experience instead.

Focus on the lesson, not the pain

During a recent visit to Pakistan, I was introduced to some relatives I had never met before and while I interacted with them I realized that even after being gone for 17 years, all these people still behaved the same way they did in the past. This was the universe showing me that even though I walk around trying my best to ignore it, most people behave badly and whether I believe it or not there will always be people whose energies are not good for me; this was a hard lesson for me to learn especially because it meant letting go of some people who were really close to me but unfortunately fit this description. Life has taught me that I cannot have blind faith in everyone and this lesson has saved me a lot of heartache for the future.

Tips on how to let go

1. Accept what happened and show gratitude for it: There is always some element of good that comes from a situation, no matter how bad the situation might have been. Bob Proctor once said ‘Whatever happens to you, there are equal amounts of good and bad’ meaning on your manifestation journey things are always balanced, if something good happens to you it is likely that something bad could happen to you as well. Accept reality as it is and show gratitude to the universe for the truth that you have now been made aware of.

2. Build some distance between the people you need to let go of: You need to build some distance between yourself and the people with negative energy in your life. There are people, for example family members or work colleagues, that you cannot completely avoid talking to completely so you can instead cut ties with them. Put some physical distance between you and them as well as energetic distance in order for you to recreate your relationship from a new angle.

3. Focus on what can be changed: In my case, I have been using Facebook as my primary platform for growing my business but now I am looking at other platforms which could help me expand better. You need to realise that when one door closes, the universe is always there opening other doors for you; let go of the closed door and focus on what can make your situation better and move you forward on your manifestation journey.

4. Be in control of your life: To truly let go, you need to claim ownership of your life. Do not let yourself live by other people’s views and standards, instead take responsibility for the events that are occurring in your life whether they are good or bad; I had to learn that if I could manifest the hurtful events I went through for myself then I could manifest wealth and prosperity into my life as well so I took personal responsibility for the bad of my past and refused to allow it define who I am today. Take personal responsibility for the events you are experiencing and make changes that will benefit your journey to wealth and elevate your positive vibration.

5. Be focused: Pay attention to the thoughts, words, and actions you are making and have positive conversations with your inner self to avoid manifesting negativity into your life. Everything that is showing up in your physical world externally is a direct reflection of what is happening in your inner world so take responsibility for the conversations you have with your inner self and focus on the positives to reap positive results.

6. Let go: Stop allowing yourself to associate with the people who radiate negative energy in your life, no matter who they are. Spend the limited time we have on earth with the people who spread positivity and make you feel good about yourself, not belittle you or make you feel like everything is wrong. If someone does not value who you are then you should not be spending the majority of your time with them.

Conclusion

Identify those people you need to let go of for you to move on and be happy with your life. Allow yourself to live in today, not in your past or in what your future will be because today is the moment that truly matters; your current life is the only thing that you can truly change so make sure to spend today thinking and manifesting positivity for your future self to enjoy tomorrow.

Expect Miracles and Blessings

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Today we will be discussing the importance of expecting miracles.

Expecting miracles is important for manifestation

No matter the perspective you have towards manifesting your life of success, you need to expect miracles and have faith in the expectations you are nursing. When we as humans are pregnant there are scans and tests which act as evidence to prove the presence of a baby in its mother as well as the baby kicking and moving inside her; but for an animal like the eagle, the mother has to sit on her egg for about thirty-five days waiting for her baby to appear, with no form of confirmation that there is something in its egg until the thirty-fifth day when it hatches.

This is the same thing that happens with your manifestations, there are some situations when there is evidence of improvement, for example when you are healing from a previous illness even when you have not completely recovered from it yet. Unfortunately, there are times things do not work out the way you expect them to, especially when it comes to financial situations but if you are expectant of your miracle and you firmly hold on to your faith in divine energy then you do not need to be afraid of what is to come.

Whenever you are going through something, you have the choice to either lean into fear or lean into faith; the devil wants you to lean into fear and does everything in his power to convince you that you cannot achieve your dreams and you should give up on them while faith will always want you to know that God is on your side and that miracles will happen for you as long as you keep believing that divine energy will come through for you.

Fear vs Faith

There is always an internal battle in our minds between fear and faith. Usually in my line of business, I meet a lot of people who failed in their entrepreneurial journeys not because they lack the talent or charisma but because they lack faith in divine energy. Before any dream is manifested, there is always a period of darkness when it feels like divine energy is silent on the situation you are going through; my mother used to say ‘the darkest part of the night is just before dawn’ so when God is about to do something great in your life, you might experience a period of equal difficulty but as long as you hold on to faith and expect miracles during these adversities divine energy will come through for you.

Most people easily hold on to faith when things are going well and they are not facing any form of difficulty but the moment a situation starts to look impossible, they allow fear to take control of their minds. They go into victim mode, believing that divine energy is no longer working in their favor and that manifestation that was close to being fulfilled no longer comes to pass because of their self-inflicted negativity. Steve Harvey once explained that for most people, the delivery of their manifestation to their doorstep is cutoff by living in a state of doubt so it is during these moments of doubt that you should instead believe that your miracle is on its way and hold on to faith that divine energy is making ways for you. When it seems like nothing is going right; hold on to faith in universal energy, expect them to create miracles for you and your miracles will show up for you.

Show faith first

Most of the time people say they will have faith only when they begin to see physical evidence. As a former lawyer my natural instinct is to rely solely on the evidence in order to believe something but when it comes to the supernatural, having faith comes first before your manifestation can appear in the physical world especially when there is proof that universal energy is working for you. There are some aspects of my life that I am currently manifesting that I have no physical evidence of but I speak about them like they are already happening; I have complete faith in divine energy and I know that when it is time, my miracle will come. So no matter what I am manifesting in my life I know that it is coming whether it comes tomorrow or in ten years, I have faith that God will always work things out in my favor and whenever I have any doubts I lean on this faith and belief.

I have various responsibilities I handle and people I need to support and because of how sensitive a person I am, I end up having to handle my numerous emotions while dealing with all these duties I have but it is my continuous faith in divine energy that constantly keeps me going no matter the obstacles. In life, there will always be issues to deal with and hurdles that you need to face, your job is to continuously speak miracles into your life and hold on to faith that universal energy will make a way for you. I live my life continuously expecting miracles whether it is in my business, my relationship, my daughter’s GCSE exams, or my son’s school selection, no matter what the situation is I always expect miracles and I always expect divine energy to come through for me. Call these miracles into your life at every opportunity and thank universal energy for their constant support, opportunities, grace, and everything you are manifesting for yourself knowing God has a plan for you.

Expect miracles and speak them into your life. It is not possible to be happy and positive one hundred percent of the time but apply the eighty/twenty rule, expect miracles and own a positive vibration eighty percent of the time, and when those overwhelming feelings occur during the twenty percent take a break. Do not allow yourself to verbalize your fears or worries but instead talk to universal energy and cry if you need to, whether they are tears of gratitude to God or they are tears from being so overwhelmed by your situation. The easiest time to create negativity in your life is when your emotions are high and it is during these periods that you must stop yourself from verbalizing fear into your life so as not to pull darkness into your physical world.

Conclusion

Ask universal energy for help in that dark moment and give yourself the space to feel these emotions without speaking and dwelling on them. Do not allow yourself to stay in that dark place and once you have let all the sad emotions out, know that God has heard you and is solving your problems. You have the power to speak miracles for yourself but you need to expect them first and ask divine energy to help you in both your high and low moments. Start expecting miracles that will take you to the next level with ease because expecting miracles are essential for your miracles to show up.

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