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The Five Lies About Money

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Money is a topic that often elicits strong emotions in people. Some see it as a means to achieve their dreams, while others view it as a source of stress and anxiety. Regardless of how we feel about it, money plays a significant role in our lives. Unfortunately, there are many misconceptions and falsehoods about money that people believe to be true.

In this blog post, we will challenge these myths and provide insights into the truth about money. We will discuss five common lies about money and provide practical advice on how to overcome them. From the myth of the “get rich quick” scheme to the misconception that you need money to make money, we will explore each lie and explain why it is false.

By the end, you will have a better understanding of the common myths and misconceptions about money, and how they can hold you back from achieving financial stability and success. I will provide actionable steps that you can take to overcome these lies and make informed decisions about your money.

Whether you’re struggling with debt, trying to save for the future, or just looking to improve your financial situation, this blog post will provide valuable insights and practical advice that you can use to take control of your finances and achieve your financial goals. So, let’s dive in and debunk these five lies about money once and for all!

The First Lie: Money needs Money

One of the most commonly perpetuated myths about money is that it requires money to make money. This falsehood has been repeated countless times throughout the entrepreneurial journey of many individuals.

When people are presented with new ideas, one of the first things they say is, “I don’t have the initial capital, money needs money, and you need money to grow money.” While there is some truth to the notion that having money makes it easier to attract more money, this is not entirely accurate.

Money does like money, and it is easier to attract more money when you already have some. If you put money into a particular bank account or investment, over time, more money will flow towards it. However, this does not mean that you need money to make money. This is a complete falsity. It is possible to start a successful business with little to no money. The power of compounding will help you to make more money as you start to earn, but this does not mean that you need money to make money. I have started all of my successful and unsuccessful businesses with little or no money. In fact, the one business where I put in £100,000 of my savings was a complete and utter loss.

I currently have multiple businesses, most of which are crossing seven figures in revenue. Two of them that come to mind actually started with zero money: my coaching business and my property business. When I first started buying properties, I had very little money, but I was able to use creative financing and other strategies to make it work. Even now, if you want to go into property, you don’t need a lot of money. There are many strategies available to you that require little or no money.

I am now into acquisitions and enjoy buying businesses. I am always on the lookout for little or no money down deals. It’s not about having a lot of money, it’s about using your brainpower, knowledge, and understanding. Once you have an idea, you can either attract the financing required for it, find a partner or investor, or start with very little or no money at all.

 

The Second Lie: Money is hard to make

The second lie that I want to address is the belief that making money is hard. In my line of work, I have seen people from various niches, ranging from traditional brick and mortar businesses to online businesses to real estate businesses. And I can tell you that when people are in the flow, making money is not hard work. It only becomes hard when you’re stressed, struggling, and in a scarcity mindset. So, before you start thinking about making money, it’s essential to work on your mindset. I have said this time and time again to people that the business is 80% mindset and 20% strategy. When you work on your mindset, the structure becomes easy, and implementation becomes something you can do with ease and grace.

I firmly believe that making money is not hard, especially if you monetize a passion of yours. For example, coaching is a passion of mine, and it’s the one that gets me fired up and makes me the happiest. I love what I do, and I love talking to people about money and helping them transform their lives. I make money by coaching, which I absolutely love, and it doesn’t seem like working. Instead, it feels like talking to friends about a topic that I’m passionate about. So, I monetize my passion, and making money is not hard for me.

But if you believe that making money is hard, it will be. This is one of the greatest lies we have been told. The belief that making money is hard is one of the major paradigms that I try to shift for my clients in my mastermind. Mostly people who come from the middle class or working middle class, and even working-class families have these ideas that making money is hard, and it takes hard work to make money, which is not true.

The Third Lie: Money is hard to keep

One of the most common lies about money is that it’s hard to keep. If you’ve had financial traumas in your life, you may believe that it’s difficult to invest and hold onto money. However, feeding into negative energy and beliefs around money can cause a self-fulfilling prophecy. The truth is, money is not hard to keep; it’s actually quite easy to keep as long as you have a positive relationship with it.

Blaming money for not staying with you or being difficult to keep is not productive. Instead, it’s important to recognize that something within your energy is repelling money, causing it to leave you quickly. This is especially true for entrepreneurs who may experience a boom and bust cycle, making money only to lose it soon after.

I work with individuals to help them make more money, keep it, and avoid the feast and famine cycles that come with a negative relationship with money. By fostering a positive and friendly relationship with money, individuals can attract and retain wealth, improving their financial situation and overall well-being.

In conclusion, the myth that money is hard to keep is just that, a myth. By examining your relationship with money and addressing any negative energy, you can create a positive and fruitful financial future.

 

The Fourth Lie: The only way to make money quickly is through illegal means

I’m often told that the only way to make money quickly is through illegal means. It’s a lie I’ve heard time and time again, and it’s one that I don’t believe in. In fact, I think it’s easier to make money honestly, and it has a much higher vibration.

I know this from personal experience. When I separated from my ex-husband six years ago, I had nothing. I was fully financially dependent on him, and I realized that if he stopped paying for the kids’ school fees, I wouldn’t be able to support them. I was pushed to be aware of my finances, and it was a tough lesson to learn.

For the next year, I lived off my savings, but it quickly ran out. When I found out about my ex-husband’s affair and filed for divorce, he played the financial card, and I had no money. I sold everything I had, but by the end of 2017, I still had nothing.

But things changed for me. I started a coaching business, went into property, and expanded further and further. I worked really hard, and yes, I did long hours. But I did it honestly, and it paid off.

Within four and a half years, I now have multiple successful businesses, and I’m very well off. I live in a affluent area, my kids are doing well in private education, and I’m in the seven-figure mark. And I did it all through honest means.

I believe that making money through high vibration is key. You have to be earning it honestly, and you have to be providing a good or service that benefits others. It brings financial abundance, happiness, joy, and health. And it’s a very good place to be.

So if you’re told that the only way to make money quickly is through illegal means, don’t believe it. Focus on earning high vibrational money honestly, and success will follow.

The Fifth Lie: Money is the ultimate solution to all of life’s problems

Money is often seen as the ultimate solution to all of life’s problems. Many people believe that if they just had more money, all their problems would disappear. However, this is far from the truth. In fact, believing that money is the answer to all of life’s problems is one of the biggest lies out there.

I have seen this misconception time and time again. People believe that making more money will solve all of their problems, but in reality, they must take ownership of their problems and understand their root causes. More often than not, they can solve these issues without more money. While having more money might make life easier, it is not a cure-all for life’s problems.

For instance, if someone’s relationship with their spouse is in turmoil, they may blame it on money problems. However, the real issue is a lack of communication and companionship. No amount of money can solve that. Similarly, if someone’s health is poor, they may believe that more money will help them exercise and eat better. But even if they can’t afford a private trainer or expensive fad diet, they can still take small steps to improve their health.

Money should not be the focus of one’s life. It is not a god, and it should not be worshipped. While money can make life easier, it should not be blamed for all of life’s problems. Money should be a friend, not a foe. It helps us experience the world in a better way, and it should be used to enhance our lives, not consume them.

I encourage everyone to work on their mindset and develop a healthy relationship with money. Attending workshops, reading books, and listening to podcasts can be great resources for developing a healthy mindset around money. But ultimately, it is up to us to take responsibility for our problems and work towards solving them. More money may or may not help, but it is not a solution in and of itself.

In conclusion, money is not the solution to all of life’s problems. It can make life easier, but it should not be blamed for all of life’s difficulties. We must take ownership of our problems and work towards solving them. Developing a healthy relationship with money can be a great step towards living a fulfilling and happy life.

CONCLUSION

As we come to the end of our journey together, it’s clear that the lies we believe about money can be harmful and hold us back from achieving financial freedom. However, by recognizing these five common myths and challenging them, we can begin to shift our perspective and take control of our financial future.

Remember, money doesn’t always need more money, and it’s not as hard to make or keep as we may have been led to believe. There are legal and ethical ways to increase our income and build wealth, without resorting to illegal means. And while money can provide us with security and comfort, it’s important to acknowledge that it’s not the ultimate solution to all of life’s problems.

By taking an honest look at our relationship with money and working to break free from these common lies, we can begin to live a more abundant and fulfilling life. So, let’s say goodbye to these five money myths once and for all, and embrace a new way of thinking that empowers us to achieve our financial goals and live the life we truly desire.

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/Umy0VH4Q37g

Masculine Energy and it’s Impact on Money

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In our society, we often hear phrases like “be a man” or “man up,” which have become synonymous with being tough, independent, and successful. These attributes are often associated with masculine energy, which is believed to be a driving force behind many individuals’ success in their careers and personal lives. However, when it comes to the topic of money, does masculine energy really have an impact?

Today, we’re diving into the topic of masculine energy and its impact on money. As you know, our mindset plays a huge role in how we approach money, and understanding the different energies that influence our mindset can help us create a healthy relationship with money. Whether you’re a man or woman, understanding the impact of masculine energy on money can provide valuable insights into how you approach your finances and set yourself up for financial success. So, let’s dive in and explore the intriguing relationship between masculine energy and money.

WHAT IS MASCULINE ENERGY ?

First, let’s define what we mean by masculine energy. Masculine energy is a term used to describe certain characteristics and traits that are typically associated with men but can also be exhibited by women. These traits are often described as assertive, confident, and goal-oriented.

Examples of masculine energy include being competitive, taking risks, and being decisive. Masculine energy is often seen as a driving force behind success in both personal and professional life, including financial success. However, it’s important to note that masculine energy is not limited to men, and women can also exhibit these traits.

 

UNDERSTANDING MASCULINE ENERGY IN RELATION TO MONEY 

Masculine energy in relation to money is often characterized by assertiveness, confidence, and a results-driven mentality. This energy can be harnessed to achieve financial goals and create a sense of financial security.

While masculine energy can be helpful in achieving financial success, it’s important not to rely solely on this energy. An overemphasis on masculine energy can lead to an imbalanced approach to money management, neglecting important areas of life such as personal relationships and well-being.

By balancing masculine and feminine energies in money management, individuals can achieve financial success while also maintaining a sense of fulfillment and balance in their lives.

 

CHARACTERISTICS OF MASCULINE ENERGY AND ITS IMPACT ON MONEY 

1. ASSERTIVENESS

One of the key characteristics of masculine energy is assertiveness. This trait is often associated with confidence and can be a game-changer when it comes to negotiating higher salaries or better deals for your business.

When you approach negotiations with a sense of assertiveness, you’re able to demonstrate your authority and competence, showing others that you have what it takes to get the job done. This is especially important for entrepreneurs and business owners who need to prove themselves to clients and employees alike.

Of course, there’s a fine line between being assertive and being bossy or rude. But with a healthy balance of masculine energy, you can walk that line with grace and finesse. You can assert your authority without coming across as aggressive or overbearing, creating a professional environment where everyone feels valued and respected.

By embracing your masculine energy and using it to your advantage, you can become a confident and effective leader, driving financial success and achieving your goals along the way.

2. GOAL ORIENTATION

Masculine energy is often associated with goal orientation, and this can be a powerful driving force for financial success. When we embody healthy masculine energy, we tend to focus on achieving goals and results, which can lead to a greater drive to succeed financially.

This is because setting financial goals is crucial to achieving financial success, whether it’s building a six-figure business or a seven-figure empire.

In my experience, I’ve noticed that men who embody healthy masculine energy tend to set higher financial goals for themselves compared to those who struggle with their masculine energy. It’s not that setting high financial goals is exclusive to men, but rather that healthy masculine energy tends to foster a mindset of ambition and drive towards success.

This is why it’s relevant to embody your masculine energy and set solid, high financial goals. Without the drive and determination to achieve these goals, it’s easy to get sidetracked and lose sight of what’s important. Masculine energy can help us stay focused on our goals and push through challenges and setbacks along the way.

 

3. RATIONALITY

Rationality is a characteristic of healthy masculine energy that cannot be overlooked when it comes to achieving financial success. It involves the ability to think logically, analyze information, and make informed decisions.

Men are generally known to have a higher degree of rational thinking than women, but this does not mean that women cannot embody this trait as well. However, women need to be aware that their rational thinking may not always be at its best due to hormonal fluctuations during certain times of the month.

As a female, it is important not to shy away from this characteristic of masculine energy. You may not always be able to think rationally, but this does not mean that you cannot strive to embody rationality whenever possible. If you find yourself unable to make a rational decision, seek advice from those around you who have healthy masculine energy. This can help you to gain perspective and make a more informed decision.

Being aware of your strengths and weaknesses is key to achieving success, and rationality is no exception. Plan ahead and seek help if necessary. This will help you to maintain a level of rationality that will allow you to achieve your financial goals.

4. INDEPENDENCE

The fourth characteristic of healthy masculine energy is independence. Men with healthy masculine energy tend to prioritize independence and self-reliance, which often translates into a strong desire to achieve financial independence. This drive for independence is a true beauty of healthy masculine energy, and it is something that many women who strive for success and financial stability also crave.

Remember that seeking financial independence does not mean giving up one’s feminine energy. In fact, this aspect of masculine energy can be a powerful tool in supporting women who seek financial freedom. It is empowering for women to be able to rely on themselves and their own abilities to achieve their goals, and this is where independence comes into play.

It is important to note, however, that independence should not be pursued to the point of isolation. Healthy masculine energy recognizes the importance of interdependence and the value of supportive relationships. Men and women alike can benefit from seeking out healthy relationships that encourage personal growth and support the pursuit of independence while maintaining a sense of community.

5. RISK- TAKING

If you have healthy masculine energy, you’re able to take calculated risks, which can lead to greater financial gains. But on the flip side, it can also result in greater financial losses. The key here is to take calculated risks, not just jumping into things blindly without thinking things through.

Taking calculated risks is a crucial aspect of healthy masculine energy. It requires taking a solid, rational look at the pros and cons of a situation, and making a decision based on the numbers and facts in front of you. Everything in life involves some level of risk-taking, and the only time you don’t take risks is when you’re not truly living.

It’s worth noting that men tend to embody this aspect of masculine energy more frequently than women. This could be a contributing factor to why men tend to take more financial risks and have higher rates of entrepreneurship than women. However, this is not to say that women cannot embody this trait. In fact, many successful women in business and finance have achieved great success by taking calculated risks.

Taking risks can be scary, but it’s essential for growth and success. The key is to be strategic and make informed decisions based on data and analysis. So, if you want to be successful, whether you’re a man or a woman, it’s important to develop a healthy sense of masculine energy and be willing to take calculated risks.

6. COMPETITIVE

Masculine energy tends to have a competitive nature, which can lead to a strong desire to outperform others financially. This drive to be better than others is not unique to men, as both men and women can experience it. However, the healthy aspect of this masculine energy trait is that it provides the incentive to push oneself harder, to get out of one’s comfort zone, and take calculated risks.

It’s easy to fall into a routine of going to work, making money, and then coming home to binge-watch the latest TV series. But when you tap into your competitive nature, you’ll find that you want more out of life. You want to be the best version of yourself, to not be left behind, to have the car, the house, the vacation, or whatever else it is that you desire.

But competition doesn’t have to be limited to material possessions. It can also drive you to pursue more profound and meaningful goals, such as making an impact in the world. Perhaps you want to start a charity or a foundation, build schools in impoverished areas, or provide clean drinking water to communities in need. Whatever it is, the competitive nature of healthy masculine energy can give you the push you need to achieve your dreams.

Of course, like any trait, competition can have its negative aspects. It can lead to unhealthy comparisons with others, jealousy, and a narrow focus on material success. But when balanced with other traits such as compassion and collaboration, competition can be a powerful tool for achieving your goals and making a positive impact on the world.

7. DECISIVNESS

Decisiveness is a trait that is often associated with the masculine energy. It involves the ability to make quick and effective decisions, while also having the courage to stand by those decisions. In the business world, this is a crucial quality to possess, as it can mean the difference between success and failure.

As a woman, I have learned the value of decisiveness from my own mother, who was a master at making quick and effective decisions. When I am in my feminine energy, I find that I often struggle with indecision and hesitation. However, when I tap into my masculine energy, I am able to make decisions with clarity and purpose.

It’s important to note that being decisive doesn’t always mean that every decision will be the right one. In fact, making mistakes is a necessary part of the learning process. However, what separates successful people from unsuccessful people is the ability to learn from their mistakes and adjust their course accordingly.

Ultimately, the ability to make quick and effective decisions is a trait that can be cultivated by both men and women. It requires a willingness to take risks and the courage to stand by one’s decisions, even in the face of adversity. By embodying the masculine energy of decisiveness, we can all become more successful in our personal and professional lives.

8. STRATEGIC THINKING

Strategic thinking is a masculine energy trait, characterized by directness and a goal-oriented approach. While feminine energy tends to be emotional and intuitive, this can sometimes hinder rational decision-making. For example, I have found that whenever I have allowed my emotions to influence my business decisions, I have ended up losing out on deals. I have now learned the importance of being clear-cut and focused on the numbers.

Learning to detach oneself emotionally from business decisions is a vital lesson for female business owners. This means focusing on the numbers, analyzing the viability of a deal, and being unafraid to walk away if the criteria are not met. It may seem daunting at first, but strategic thinking is a skill that can be developed over time.

Ultimately, embracing strategic thinking allows us to make informed decisions that are not clouded by emotions. By embodying this trait, we can approach business with a clear mind and a sharp focus, which is essential for success in today’s competitive marketplace.

9. LEADERSHIP

Leadership is a crucial aspect of financial decision making and management, and it’s often associated with mastering energy. To become a great leader, you need to embody both feminine and masculine energy, but when it comes to leading, being in your masculine energy is crucial.

Historically, the most successful leaders have embodied masculine energy, whether they were male or female. It’s not about being harsh or rude; it’s about being assertive, making quick decisions, and standing firm in them. Leaders must make difficult decisions, and the more responsibility they have, the more masculine energy they need to embody.

Women have been kept in the past to be sweet and soft, while men have been expected to be harsher and more assertive. But these gender roles are becoming blurred, and any woman who wants to be a successful leader must embody elements of masculine energy. Men, too, need to embrace their masculine energy and not shy away from it. It’s not about getting rid of feminine energy altogether; there are benefits to that as well.

But in the space of being a leader, embracing masculine energy is crucial. You can still be softly spoken and embody masculine energy, and it will help you make better decisions and lead your business to success. So, embrace your masculine energy and become a great leader, regardless of your gender.

10. CONFIDENCE

The master energy of confidence is a force to be reckoned with, emanating a sense of control and assurance that can pave the way to greater financial success through effective networking and sales. But how does one cultivate confidence? It all starts with believing in oneself. When we exude confidence, it speaks for itself, conveying a sense of conviction and assurance that is not lost on those around us. On the other hand, if we lack confidence, this too will be picked up subconsciously by others, hindering our ability to make meaningful connections and achieve our goals.

So, what can we do to bolster our confidence? It may sound cliché, but the saying “fake it till you make it” holds some truth. This doesn’t mean we should be disingenuous or dishonest about our abilities, but rather, we should embody the belief that we are capable of anything we set our minds to.

One exercise that can be particularly effective in building confidence is the mirror exercise. When faced with a daunting task or challenge, take a few moments to stand in front of a mirror and convince yourself that you can do it. By believing in yourself and embodying a positive, healthy, masculine energy, you can inspire others to have confidence in you as well, paving the way to success. Of course, doubts and fears are natural and can sometimes lead to imposter syndrome, especially for women. But by cultivating confidence from within and leading ourselves to believe that we can achieve our goals, we can overcome these doubts and fears and achieve great things.

CONCLUSION

In conclusion, we’ve explored the fascinating relationship between masculine energy and money. Masculine energy, with its focus on independence, strength, and drive, can be a powerful force in helping individuals achieve success in their careers and personal lives. However, as we’ve seen, this same energy can also lead to an overemphasis on competition, risk-taking, and short-term gains, which can be detrimental to our long-term financial well-being.

The key to harnessing the positive aspects of masculine energy while avoiding its pitfalls is balance. By cultivating a healthy relationship with our finances and recognizing the role that both masculine and feminine energies play in our approach to money, we can create a more holistic and sustainable financial mindset.

Remember, being financially successful isn’t just about being tough and independent. It’s about having the right mindset, taking calculated risks, and making smart decisions that align with our values and long-term goals. By embracing a balanced approach to money, we can harness the power of both masculine and feminine energies and achieve financial success on our own terms.

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/IxqrmuAS3tw

 

Women, Money, and Feminine Energy

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In today’s world, both men and women face unique challenges when it comes to managing their finances while nurturing their personal lives. Women often struggle with balancing their careers and family life, while men may find it difficult to maintain their role as providers and protectors. However, with the right mindset and strategies, it is possible to take control of your financial well-being while nurturing your personal life. As a money mindset coach, I believe it’s crucial for women to understand the relationship between money and their feminine energy. In this post, I’ll share my personal experiences with financial abuse and finding balance between my femininity and financial independence.

The Importance of Understanding the Relationship Between Women, Money, and Feminine Energy

The way we perceive money is deeply intertwined with our beliefs about ourselves and our worth as women. Society has taught us that money is a symbol of power and success, and for a long time, women were not encouraged to take control of their finances. However, things are changing, and it’s now more important than ever for women to understand the role that money plays in their lives and how it’s linked to their feminine energy.

Money and femininity are not mutually exclusive. Women can be feminine and powerful, and they can also be financially independent. In fact, embracing your femininity can help you be more successful with money. As women, we have unique skills and traits that can help us succeed, such as empathy, intuition, and collaboration.

To understand the relationship between women, money, and feminine energy, it’s essential to first understand your own relationship with money. Take some time to reflect on your beliefs about money and where they come from. Are you comfortable talking about money? Do you feel confident making financial decisions? By understanding your own relationship with money, you can start to see how it’s linked to your feminine energy.

 

My Personal Experiences with Financial Abuse and Finding Balance  

I’ve experienced financial abuse from both my first and second husbands, which has made me realize the importance of financial independence. In my first marriage, my husband became highly abusive and controlling towards me and our finances because he was uncomfortable with me being the breadwinner. In my second marriage, my husband forced me to accept his girlfriend as his second wife, and I had to give up my financial independence to keep a roof over my head.

These experiences have taught me the importance of finding a balance between my femininity and financial independence. It’s essential to embrace my feminine energy while also taking control of my finances. I’ve learned that financial independence is not just about providing for myself but also having the freedom to live my life on my terms.

The Power of Feminine Energy in Financial Planning

Feminine energy is a powerful force that has the potential to transform every aspect of our lives, including our finances. Feminine energy is often associated with nurturing, intuition, creativity, and collaboration. It is a force that helps us connect with our emotions and inner wisdom, which enables us to make better decisions.

In financial planning, feminine energy can help us create a balanced and holistic approach to our finances. It can help us connect with our values and priorities, which enables us to make better financial decisions. Additionally, feminine energy can help us develop healthy relationships with money and overcome any limiting beliefs that prevent us from achieving financial success.

Embracing Your Feminine Energy While Taking Control of Your Finances

Many women struggle with the idea of financial independence because they fear that it might make them seem less feminine or even threaten their relationships. However, it’s essential to understand that financial independence doesn’t have to compromise your femininity or your relationships. Instead, it can be a source of empowerment and freedom that allows you to take charge of your life on your own terms.

To achieve this balance, it’s crucial to understand the role that feminine energy plays in our financial lives. Feminine energy is often associated with qualities such as empathy, compassion, intuition, and nurturing. These qualities can be extremely beneficial in managing our finances, such as having empathy for others’ financial situations or using intuition to make sound financial decisions.

At the same time, it’s important not to allow these qualities to make you vulnerable to financial abuse or manipulation. It’s essential to be assertive, set boundaries, and stand up for yourself when it comes to your finances. This doesn’t mean you have to be aggressive or masculine, but rather assertive in a way that’s true to your feminine energy.

One way to embrace both your femininity and financial independence is by reframing the way you view money. Instead of seeing it as a source of power or control, see it as a tool that can be used to create the life you desire. By doing so, you can align your financial goals with your values and use your money to create a life that feels authentic and fulfilling.

Another way to balance feminine energy and financial independence is by seeking out support and resources that align with your values. For example, finding a financial advisor who understands the importance of balancing femininity and financial independence can be extremely beneficial. Additionally, surrounding yourself with a community of like-minded women who share your values can provide a supportive and empowering environment to help you achieve your financial goals.

Balancing Career Breaks

Career breaks can be beneficial for women who have children, as it can provide them with the time and space to concentrate on their personal life. However, it’s essential to balance this break with your career, especially when it comes to finances. Women who take a career break may face challenges when returning to work, such as earning less or being overlooked for promotions.

It’s important to ensure that you’re financially stable during your career break, and this can be achieved through saving and investing. By developing a financial plan and being disciplined with your money, you can ensure that you have the financial resources you need during your break and when you return to work.

It’s also essential to create a relaxed environment during your career break, especially if you have children. Stressful situations, such as reading depositions while trying to put a baby to sleep, can negatively affect both you and your child. It’s important to prioritize your personal life during this time and ensure that you have a healthy work-life balance.

Embracing Masculine Energy as a Provider and Protector

For men, there comes a time when you need to be the provider and protector of your family. It’s essential to educate yourself about money and develop the right understanding of it. Both men and women need to have a healthy relationship with money at certain periods in their lives.

For men, regardless of age, it’s time to step into your masculine energy and fulfill your role as a provider and protector. Being responsible for the financial well-being of your family can be a significant source of pride and fulfillment.

Developing a Healthy Relationship with Money

Your relationship with money is crucial in achieving financial independence. Many people grow up with certain beliefs and attitudes towards money that may be limiting and prevent them from achieving their financial goals. This is where working on your money mindset comes in.

It involves identifying and letting go of any limiting beliefs you have about money and adopting new, positive beliefs that align with your financial goals.

For example, if you have a belief that “money is the root of all evil,” it may be challenging to achieve financial success because your subconscious mind will always be working against you. You can replace this belief with a positive one such as “money is a tool to create a better life for myself and my loved ones.”

Developing a healthy relationship with money involves understanding that money is not just about accumulation, but about the positive impact it can have on your life and the lives of others. When you view money as a tool to create a fulfilling life, it becomes easier to manage it and make decisions that align with your financial goals.

Another way to develop a healthy relationship with money is by practicing gratitude. Focus on what you have, rather than what you don’t have. This helps you cultivate a sense of abundance and attract more prosperity into your life.

Additionally, it’s crucial to develop a financial plan that aligns with your values and priorities. This plan should include short-term and long-term financial goals, a budget, and a plan for unexpected expenses.

 

Conclusion

Understanding money and how it relates to different periods in our lives is crucial for our financial well-being. It’s essential to educate ourselves about money, take care of ourselves during career breaks, and embrace our feminine or masculine energy as appropriate. By doing so, we can achieve financial success and fulfillment while living our lives to the fullest.

Achieving financial independence is possible for anyone, regardless of their gender. However, as a woman, it’s essential to understand the relationship between money and feminine energy and find a balance between the two.

This involves embracing your femininity while also taking control of your finances, becoming financially literate, working on your money mindset, and developing a healthy relationship with money. Additionally, surrounding yourself with a supportive community can help you stay motivated and on track towards your financial goals.

Remember, achieving financial independence is not just about the numbers, but about creating a balanced and fulfilling life that aligns with your values and priorities.

 Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/ZuHLbxpjtz8

 

10 Mindset Hacks That Wealthy and Successful People Use

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Everyone wants to become successful and wealthy, but it can be difficult to know where to start. Fortunately, there are some mindset hacks used by wealthy and successful people that can help you on your journey.

In this blog post, I’ll provide 10 mindset hacks that can help you become more successful and wealthy. I’ll also provide tips on how to incorporate these hacks into your daily life. So, if you’re looking to become more successful and wealthy, this blog post will provide you with the knowledge and skills you need to make it happen. Read on to learn more about the 10 mindset hacks that wealthy and successful people use and how you can use them too.

Hack #1

Have an abundance mindset. Successful people focus on what they have rather than on what they lack; they believe that all the resources they need are available and instead of waiting for opportunities to come to them, they focus on creating opportunities that will aid them in reaching their success.

This hack is about being proactive and going for what you want rather than waiting for it to just fall in your lap. People have said to me severally that you need money to make money but I believe you do not need money to make money, you just need an idea; with the right idea and belief in this idea you will be able to attract all the money you will need to make this goal a reality.

Hack #2 

Set goals for yourself. Successful people always make sure they set great goals for themselves and can break these goals into workable steps that they can easily achieve.

If, for example, you may not have any idea of when or how you will be able to make whatever amount of money you would like to make monthly but when you take the initial steps, formulate a plan to make this amount, and take action, your belief in universal energy will start to make this dream an actuality in your physical world.

It is important that you have a plan or idea of where you are going and break it down into steps that you are following in order to achieve your dreams, even if these plans can change along the way.

Hack #3:

Speak positively to yourself. You need to develop positive self-talk because this acts as a form of self-hypnosis for you, if your inner conversations are constructive then you will release positive vibrations into the universe but if they are destructive, you will only be able to release negative vibrations into your atmosphere.

Declare your positive affirmations to yourself continuously and believe in your ability to succeed always, not just at one point in your day; Focus on your strengths and visualize yourself achieving your goals, have a good idea of what it is that you want to achieve and let your inner self reflect these beliefs as well.

To reach the goals you plan on achieving in life, you need to have the belief that you can truly get there and cultivate these beliefs through inner self-talk.

Hack #4

Take risks. Successful people are not afraid to take calculated risks; to achieve greatness there is always an element of risk that you will have to take, you will need to step out of your comfort zone and premeditated risks not just random risks for the sake of it.

Weigh the pros and cons of your possibility first before you take the leap of faith and go for it; there will be times when it looks crazy to other people but as long as it is a risk you have calculated and you have considered the losses that you might take then have faith in your decision and do not be afraid.

Someone said to me once that people who are afraid of risking anything will end up risking everything so make calculated risks and allow yourself to have faith in these chances you have planned to take.

Hack #5

Be willing to continuously learn. Wealthy people understand that education does not stop when you get your degree or other academic qualification, you have to constantly evolve and keep finding ways to improve your craft every day till you excel at it. Personally I continuously learn and evolve every day, I refused to let my education stop when I graduated and became a barrister and because of this, I have been able to become the person I am today.

You have to invest in your personal and professional development and keep finding new ways to seek out knowledge in order to better yourself; Something I learned from Tony Robbins long ago is that there is never something that is status quo; you are never truly stagnant but you are either developing your knowledge and becoming a better version of yourself or diminishing. Constantly strive to be better in every area of your life, if you do not then you will end up reducing in value.

Hack #6

Be resilient. Successful people have high levels of resilience; on this journey to true generational wealth you will come across various trials and hurdles in life, there will be setbacks that will try to break you and derail you from your path to manifestation but if you do not have resilience you are going to snap at the first hurdle you encounter.

For you to bounce back from setbacks, you need to build your powerhouse of resilience against negative situations and keep moving forward with your goal in mind even in the face of adversity.

Those who can push through these adversities are the ones who end up succeeding while those who cannot end up failing; resilience is not something you are born with but has to be developed over time with the more hurdles you overcome in life and with a positive mindset.

Hack #7

Be focused. Something one of my mentors said to me once was that ‘energy flows where focus goes’, he used the example of a skier who is going skiing down a slope and encounters a tree in his path, as long as he is focused in the direction of that tree he will surely end up heading towards it no matter how much he says he does not want to hit it.

In life, if you keep focusing on negativity and the things that are going wrong in your life rather than on your goals and where you plan on heading then you will never be able to achieve anything; Focus on where you are going not where you are or where you have been.

Wealthy people are great at focusing their attention on things that matter, they prioritize their time and energy and do not waste their resources on things that do not align with their goals so emulate this behavior and develop your focus on your dreams continuously.

Hack #8

Be grateful. Generally, most wealthy people practice gratitude; they focus on what they want to achieve and appreciate the good things in their life.

There have been people who have made large amounts of money quickly, for example, lottery winners, athletes, etcetera, but because of their ingratitude they ended up losing this wealth just as quickly; Gratitude not only brings wealth but keeps that prosperity in your life as well.

Cultivating an attitude of gratitude helps you attract more abundance to your life, in both the Bible and the Quran God clearly says that when you are grateful, he will increase the number of things that you are grateful for meaning he will give you more things to be grateful for.

Hack #9

Surround yourself with successful people. In one of the Prophet Mohammed’s teachings, he said that on the day of judgement you will get up with the people who are with you, he speaks about choosing your friends wisely because they are the ones who will be there to accompany you on the day of judgement and they have a strong impact on your day to day living.

Scientifically it has been proven that the amount of money you can have is the average of the five closest people in your life; if you are close to people who do not make much money then that is you will end up showing up in your life, you cannot go beyond your social circle.

Find ways to spend more of your time with successful and wealthy people, seek mentors and other successful people who have been able to achieve what you want to achieve and can help you continuously learn and grow on your manifestation journey. Allow yourself to be in a community of other people who are striving to be on the same path and to achieve goals that are similar to the ones you are planning on attaining.

Hack #10

Give back. Wealthy people always have a philanthropic mindset; they believe in giving back to the community, helping people who need it, and using their money to make the lives of others better. Your money can go a lot further than you will ever be able to physically go; of course you should save some of the money for you and your generation to live comfortably but make sure you use the abundance you have been blessed with by universal energy to bless others.

Give back to people who do not have the facilities that you have been given for example orphanages, victims of natural disasters, charities etcetera; you will not be on this earth forever so do your best to leave this world better than you met it.

Conclusion

Make the money you would like to make, achieve your goals, spend on yourself and on the things that you would like, and then have enough left over to be able to spend doing God’s will by helping those who do not have.

Congratulations!  You now have the tools and techniques you need to become more successful and wealthy. With the right mindset, anything is possible.

Now that you’ve read this blog post, you have the knowledge you need to apply the 10 mindset hacks that wealthy and successful people use. So, take the time to incorporate these mindset hacks into your daily life and watch as your success and wealth begin to skyrocket.

 Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/S_4yf_KPu7A

 

Hope Fuels Faith

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 Today we will be discussing hope, how hope fuels your faith, why faith is important to your belief, and why believing is an essential ingredient needed for your manifestation journey. 

 

How hope fuels your faith

   It is important that you have enough hope- fueled faith to believe that you can achieve all the things you have dreamt about for yourself, no matter what area of your life these dreams are related to.

When those moments of doubt from the devil creep into your life, it is essential that you have strong faith in your beliefs and for this faith to be as firm as you need, you need to have hope. Personally, when I am at my lowest or darkest moments, I turn to prayers more than anything else naturally because that connection with the divine reinforces my hope in God and the plans he has for my life which helps recharge my faith that everything I am manifesting will fall into place according to divine timing. 

   Many religions – and even those who do not believe in God – have specific times of prayers or periods when the world is quiet, you can put your worldly thoughts aside, sit through meditation and connect with divine energy.

Connecting to divine energy gives you peace because now you have hope that your manifestations and prayers are going to come true. When you meditate, you are able to connect to your higher self and to what you are desiring for yourself and regardless of what path you take, you have hope that whatever you are creating and manifesting is going to happen.   

 

God is looking out for you 

   You need to truly believe that divine energy is looking out for you and everything you are hoping for is going to happen for you; God is looking out for you and as long as you have faith that allows you to believe daily, you will be able to overcome the doubts that creep into your mind when you are facing tough situations on your manifestation journey. 

I have always thought Bollywood actor, Shah Rukh Khan, is an amazing person who really embodies everything about the law of attraction and manifesting the life you want for yourself; generally he is very honest and upfront about how he achieved things and what you should do to reach the success that he has been able to reach.

I listened to an interview he did where someone asked if he thought the three films he did before he took a four-year sabbatical for health reasons would be successful and he replied that he believed that every single one of them is going to be a super duper hit; he said ‘I’m not saying this to be arrogant but this is the belief that I hold. And it’s a belief that I go to sleep with, it’s a belief that I wake up with, and it’s a belief that I walk around with and I thought, absolutely fantastic’ and this is how every one of us is supposed to be believing.

When the movie came out after this interview, it ended up breaking box office records and making large amounts of money not just because of how great he is at marketing (because he did a lot of amazing marketing for the movie and was able to cover his costs for it even before the film came out) but because of the belief he already had in the project.

Shah Rukh Khan has always had complete belief in himself and in his dreams and aspirations for as long as I have seen him in Bollywood and this is something we all can learn from and aspire to do in our own lives every day; even when it does not look like things are working out right now they will happen eventually according to divine timing as long as you believe in yourself and in universal energy. 

 

Believe in yourself      

   You do not have to be the best at everything to achieve your goals, you just have to believe in yourself and whatever you are manifesting for your life; The one thing that you need to have for you to be ultimately financially successful, successful in relationships or successful in any area of your life is faith in the dreams and aspirations you have for yourself.

Do not ever allow yourself to think about the opposite of your dreams or doubt that any of your manifestations will come true, if you truly believe in yourself with all your heart and mind you will be able to achieve anything you desire.

   When you believe you can do something, you work harder to achieve it and become more motivated to try harder to reach that goal you are believing in.

Give it your best with the belief that you are going to succeed then mountains begin to be moved for you, the universe contrives and gives you everything you want; when you really want something the whole universe conspires to give you that which you are desiring for yourself and this is what the law of attraction is all about.

You may not have the same talents or opportunities as someone else but you cannot let that derail you from the manifestations you have planned for your life, as long as you are able to believe in yourself and your abilities you will succeed. 

You have to start figuring out how to instill yourself to have this belief and to have this belief, you have to have faith in a higher power no matter what your religion is. When you believe in a higher power it allows you to have faith and this faith gives you hope to solidify your belief that everything is going to work out for your success.  

 

Conclusion

Make sure that you have a ritual, prayer, or meditation that gives you hope every day and this hope fuels your faith in divine energy or whatever higher power you believe in. Shah Rukh Khan believed in his dreams, worked for them, and was able to achieve them over and over again; no matter how much effort you put into something, if you do not have the belief it will not work out the way you have envisioned it to work out. 

If you do not believe in your dreams and continuously allow doubt to cloud your mind, you will never be able to achieve them no matter the amount of effort you put into it.

Hard work is important but believing that you can achieve your goals is much more important; if there is anything you want to achieve in life you have to believe with here atom of your being that it has already happened for you and the universe is bringing things together for it to come into fruition for you to receive in the physical world. 

 

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/Qp9jX1qVgSs

 

 

Three Steps To Manifesting Wealth

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Today let us talk about the three steps you need to fulfill to manifest your wealth. As you must all know by now, I am a firm believer in simplicity and not overcomplicating situations. The simpler the solution to a problem is, the better it is for me and the more application it can have; Here are the three steps to manifesting anything you want in your life:

Step One:

Be very clear about what you want. Too many people say they want things but are unsure about them and it is this uncertainty that does not allow their manifestations to come to pass. Do not put limitations on yourself; the desires you truly want are coming to you from your higher self via divine energy so they are not just random events that are occurring in your mind’s eye.

If you truly have a desire for something then you have the talents and abilities to make that dream your reality in your physical world, you just have to work out how to acquire the skills to hone these gifts. Divine energy will never give you a desire if you do not have the talent for it – be it a dormant one or an active one. Be sincere with yourself about what you truly want, write these desires down, allow yourself to stay aware of these desires, and take them one step at a time till you have completed all the goals on your list.

Step Two:

Believing that you can have these clear desires you have written for yourself. No matter the dream that you are manifesting for your life – whether it is to make a million monthly, to have a new car, a new partner, a new house etcetera – if you do not have the conviction that it is already yours, then it will never be manifested. You can wish for something over and over again but unless you strongly believe it you will never be able to attain it; bypass the difficulties of your physical world and do not allow them to dissuade you from the strong convictions your higher self has made.

The problem most people have with manifesting is having that unshaken belief in their desires, if you do not instill this belief inside of you that you will achieve this dream then you will only end up being someone who continuously wants but never ends up achieving. You have to have the certainty that what you have dreamt of has already been given to you, only then will these desires begin to manifest for you in your physical world.

There is an old saying that goes ‘if you can see it in here, if you can believe it in here, you can hold it in here’ but knowing it in here and believing it in here are two different things, unless you have that inner belief that everything will work out for you then it will never come to pass.

When you come from this energy, things will always work in your favor. If there is something you truly desire then you need to develop the conviction for it first; manifesting tools that can help you get rid of doubts and instill these convictions inside of you include the mirror exercise (my personal favorite), daily affirmations, vision boards etcetera. Something I teach beginners of my mastermind class is having a manifestation roadmap; we get on a call together, I give them my favorite techniques, we discuss what they truly desire, and techniques we use daily in order to turn these beliefs into convictions in daily lives.

Step number two is usually the hardest because it is during this phase that your limiting beliefs interfere and this negative energy towards money creates uncertainties and pushes whatever you desire away from you. People who try to use the law of attraction in their favor but do not have the belief in their desires end up battling with their inner programming who is sending negative energy into the universe by just wanting without conviction.

There’s a difference between wanting and desiring; When you want something and you are radiating energy that is a lack of it, it does not exist in your life at the moment. When you desire it, you cannot only want it but you must also instill the belief that you already have the things you are manifesting. The laws of the universe are very specific and will only work for you if you understand them, for example, the laws of gravity cannot be stopped no matter how much you want them to but when you understand the laws then you will know how to make them work for you.

Using the right manifesting techniques, you instill the belief and turn that belief into conviction over some time, the longer it takes you to turn that belief into conviction, the longer it will take for you to bring whatever you want into your into your three-dimensional world.

Step Three:

Listen to your intuition. When you have instilled the belief that you can achieve your desire inside of you, you will create opportunities and situations that will help you accomplish these goals and then take inspired action from your inner thoughts.

Before you make any decision, take time to stop, sit down, meditate, and think it through before reacting; never take action without being inspired.

What do you feel inspired to do? What do you feel is the next step for you to create this desire in your physical world? As important as step number two is, if you do not take action to support your conviction then your manifestation will not happen for you at the rate it is supposed to.

Conclusion

Figure out what you desire, turn your belief into a conviction that what you desire is already available to you without any form of doubt, and then take action to see what you are inspired to do to bring that desire into your physical world.

5 Steps to Changing Any Beliefs

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Today we will be discussing the five steps you need to follow in order to change your beliefs and ultimately, your lives.

How to change your beliefs

I have taught on the three steps to manifesting and how the second – and most important- step is truly believing in your manifestation. A famous quote by Henry Ford that has stuck with me since I began my entrepreneurial journey said ‘If you believe you can then you can and if you believe you can’t then you can’t ‘ and it was with this that I realized that the beliefs we have as humans are very important; As it says in the Bible, ask for something and if you believe it will be given to you, and in the Quran, I am to my servant as he expects me to be meaning when you believe something then definitely it will be true for you.

Now that we have discussed the importance of beliefs, how do we identify and change these beliefs? As I began to look at my manifestation journey and the work that I do, I have realized that we create a new reality by generating and adapting new beliefs. I was speaking to the members of my mastermind during the question & answer session today and I told one of them that if she can believe in her heart that she can earn a hundred thousand then that is the amount she will start to earn in her bank account; the amount of time this would take is not the problem because in truth you have the ability to collapse time as long as you have the deep conviction to do so. If you have true belief in your manifestation, then that will be the reality that will show up for you.

Five Steps To Changing One’s Beliefs

These are methods that I personally have used at various points in my life, especially whenever I think I am not succeeding at something or something is not going well for example, I realized that even though I had a good relationship with money, my relationship with time was lacking so to improve that I needed to make some changes to the current beliefs I have concerning time.

1. Identify the areas you would like to work on.

If you do not focus on the specific section of your life that you need to change, you end up creating beliefs on various random parts instead. Now how do you get to these core beliefs? Identify the center of the particular area you want to work on and the more focused you are on that specific, the more you allow your mind to focus on beliefs about it. Using money as our area of focus, if you currently make a hundred thousand a month then there is nothing stopping you from making that same amount daily; the universe does not see the numbers when we are dealing with money but rather the changes in our energies regarding money.

2. Write down all your beliefs about this area.

One thing that has helped me on multiple occasions regarding this is whenever I get new ideas, I set a timer for five minutes and write down as much as I can without lifting my pen for this period of time. When you do this you find out that your logical mind, for the first few minutes, has empowering views of money before your subconscious mind begins to think about all the reasons making money would be a difficult task. By the time the timer goes off, you will realize that your conscious mind has given you amazing money beliefs for your new reality.

3. Read through the beliefs you have written.

When you look through the beliefs you have written during those five minutes, you will realize that you should be able to identify about two to five core beliefs that summarize all your other beliefs. This helps you analyze how your mind works and what core beliefs rule your subconscious mind and is creating your reality that your conscious mind is not aware of.

4. Create the opposite of the core beliefs you already have.

These will be your new set of beliefs. If one of your core beliefs is there is not enough time in the day to make the amount of money you would like to make daily, then your new core belief should be that you need a new system that would allow you to make this type of income in that short period. So you do not need to work ten times harder, you just have to find a different way of working to achieve your aforementioned goal.

The amount I make working shorter hours now with ease is almost ten times more than the amount I made working longer hours when I was a lawyer because I had not created the system that worked best for me yet; My conviction was that I could not only do this but do it differently and it was with this that I was able to create the reality I am living today; If the core beliefs you currently have are not working then try the opposite of these beliefs till you reach a system that works better and easier for you. Before you can create a new reality you need to have the belief to back it up.

5. Embody your new beliefs and make them part of your energy system.

This step is the hardest part. There are several modalities like EFT, energy healings, energy clearing, NLP techniques etcetera; generally, I believe any manifesting technique is about reprogramming your new beliefs and creating a new reality from the new sets of beliefs that you have. In order to embody these new beliefs in your energy field and make your convictions, I would recommend doing your personal research using books, mediations, teachings etcetera.

My favorite one is energy clearing and in my masterminds, I teach about using this method to help connect you to life as well as take out the energy in your old beliefs and put them into new beliefs; energy clearing is repeating this clearing continuously over the next few weeks until these new beliefs get embodied into your energy field. This causes you to start thinking differently from a new portal belief system rather than the old one and in turn, is why we get quicker results because the faster you instill a new belief, the faster your new reality begins to show up in your physical world.

Conclusion

Focus on yourself and your beliefs; The quicker you can change your beliefs, the quicker you will be able to create a new reality for yourself. Find new techniques and modalities that can help you identify and instill new beliefs in yourself. Change your beliefs and create a new reality for yourself to make your manifestations a part of your physical world.

Welcoming the new year by reflecting on last year

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Today we will be discussing how to move on from last year – celebrating what we achieved and the lessons we learned – while welcoming and setting your targets for the new year.

Welcome to the new year

It seems like we were just celebrating Christmas in 2021 and now, in the blink of an eye, we are in 2023. Last year was a challenging year for me because there were a lot of things that I had to deal with in my personal life; this affected my professional life as well because I had to give most of my attention to my family and personal life during these trying times however thanks to divine energy I am still able to look back at last year with a sense of achievement and fulfillment that surprises even me.

Although I did not advance as much professionally last year, I was able to grow a lot as a person and I am truly grateful for everything that I learned in 2022. Similarly, you need to give yourself space to reflect on the previous year not based on the amount of money you made or other external factors but to look inwards and appreciate everything that you survived to get to where you are today. Allow yourself to meditate on the ups and downs that you had to handle in 2022 and to grow holistically not just focusing on the financial aspect of your advancement in life; If your sole purpose in life is to only grow financially then you are living an empty life.

The main success of life is not the monetary desires you have for yourself but who you become to achieve these goals. When I look at my last year financially, I realize it was very similar to 2021 meaning I did not grow much in that aspect last year mostly due to certain unforeseen circumstances in my personal life but even though I had to deal with different disappointments last year I dealt with all of them and came out on top which is why I can come here to celebrate today.

Celebrate your wins, no matter how small

Celebrate the times when you were able to overcome the challenges in your life and achieved things you never thought you would be able to achieve. One of the first things that happened to me around April last year was that I was involved in a terrible buggy accident while I was in Turkey, it was such a severe accident that I fell unconscious and I was so sure I had lost both my knees at a point. What surprised me the most though was the amount of strength I was able to show during the situation especially because my son was there and I was determined not to let him feel like he was responsible for the situation I was dealing with, regardless of the pain I was going through I needed to make sure that he did not grow up with the guilt of feeling he was to blame for the situation. Thank God nothing drastic happened to my leg.

As parents, we subconsciously try our best to make sure our children are living their lives happily and healthily yet we always end up second-guessing ourselves and looking for ways to do more for them, especially as working mothers. So I am proud of how I handled that situation and I am proud of my children and how they were able to rise to the occasion and support me during my healing process. That was one of my biggest achievements of 2022; even though it added nothing to me monetarily, I was able to show the true strength of my character and be a good example for my children by getting through the situation. Value who you are and what you were able to achieve last year and the years before that, trust universal energy and let them continue to lead you down the path of who you are becoming; personally, I rely on Allah for everything no matter how big or small the situation is and because of this I am becoming the type of person I can be proud of.

Be proud of yourself

Honestly examine the challenging situations you faced and ask yourself how you overcame them. How did you deal with it? What did you learn from the experience? What about that incident made you feel proud of yourself? Celebrate your achievements, congratulate yourself for how you behaved, and be proud of yourself for being able to deal with the situation.

Another big moment in 2022 for me was when my son ended up in the Accident & Emergency and had to have an emergency operation. As a mother, of course, I was very stressed and worried about him but I also made sure that throughout the entire period I was celebrating God’s help and thanking him in advance for his help during our situation. I remained thankful to divine energy from the beginning to the end and I expected God to help me even though times were challenging. Today my son is normal and 100% healthy again.

No matter what I am dealing with, I remain constantly grateful to divine energy and I make sure my faith in them does not falter. Every step of the way, universal energy created a solution for me and in the end, God was able to find a way out for me in the most divine way. The third incident that almost broke me completely was when my daughter ended up in the Accident & Emergency as well in December just after school had closed. She is home now and doing better although they are still checking up on her from time to time however it is no longer a life-or-death situation and for that, I am thankful to God. What made this situation more difficult than my son’s was that I realized I was not as expectant as I was before, for a few hours my faith did falter to the point where I had to let my brother stay with her while I took some time off to control my emotions and be the parent she needed me to be in that moment.

I fell below the personal standards I usually have and instead of believing I ended up crying to divine energy and even being angry about it yet I did not allow myself to wallow in self-criticism for falling short this time; We are all human and we are all having a human experience on earth even though we are spiritual beings so there will always be moments we fall short of the high standards we set for ourselves. When these periods occur, you have to give yourself space to feel those intense emotions and I look back on that moment with maturity instead of self-loathing, instead of judging myself during these moments I can now ask for God’s strength and forgiveness in my times of weakness. So I gave myself enough time to calm down and was able to love myself enough to start behaving like the mother my daughter needed and I expected myself to be. Today I am proud of myself for giving my human side time to feel and even though my faith faltered I was able to bounce back and hold on to divine energy again.

Conclusion

On this journey to wealth you will have moments of doubts, challenges, and disappointments along the way but it is during these periods that you have to continuously ask God to help you overcome them. There will be times you will wonder if your dream is even worth it in the end but you must realize that you are being tested and remain loyal to yourself and to divine energy.
Allow yourself to feel your human emotions and experience both versions of you – the one that handles situations with faith and trust and the one who has meltdowns and whose faith falters sometimes without dwelling in this state. Look at your life and see what you have personally achieved in the past year.

What lessons are you taking from 2022 into 2023 to allow you to develop and grow as a person? How have you grown and how can you use all that you have learned to help others? How can you have an abundant life not just financially but in all areas of your life? Celebrate the good, bad, and ugly of 2022 and allow all that you learned to help you as you move forward on your journey to wealth.

Show Up Even When You Do Not Want To

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Being an authentic person

There are many times we are faced with situations that we just do not feel like showing up for, whether it is going to work, attending to a business, or even having awkward conversations; using myself as an example there have been times when I genuinely did not want to participate in any of my businesses or to even to say my five daily prayers as a Muslim. Something I told my daughter when we were discussing showing up when you do not feel a hundred percent was that even though no one will be there to force you, it is your responsibility to attend to your duties because it is the ethical thing to do.


When you make a commitment you have to value other people’s time and follow through on that commitment to remain the kind of person that people can continue to rely on, this is one of the fundamental elements of being wealthy. Wealthy people make sure they always show up no matter the circumstances, they follow through on commitments and when they cannot, they apologize and overcompensate for missing said commitment. This is how to genuinely be an authentic person.

Value your time as well as the time of others

On this journey to wealth, there are various ways of making money which we have discussed previously but building one’s reputation as well as the reputation of one’s business is very important in your manifestation journey. You should be known as someone dependable and not someone who continuously falls short of their obligations. Even though my podcast is not monetized, I continue to put out new episodes three times a week because my primary goal for creating it was to get my message out to as many people as I can and connect with as many people as we can which we are accomplishing successfully. I continue to show up every day and two and a half years later, I make sure I make myself do it because I know how important it is and I know the impact that it is making on people.

Showing up constantly eventually becomes part of your character. Something I learned long ago from my mother first as well as a few of my school teachers and people I view as my personal mentors like Bob Proctor and Jim Rowan was that how you do one thing is how you should do everything else; the commitment you make to one thing should be the commitment you make to everything else and if you are not able to follow through on something then the likeliness of committing to something else is very low. If you want to do well in life, you must truly commit to the goals you are manifesting for your life.
To be an individual who follows through on their commitments, you have to be able to do things even though you do not feel like it. Of course, there are unforeseen circumstances that cannot be avoided, for example, I had to move a workshop by a week because my son had appendicitis and I had to spend most of my week with him and even though I made sure I still did the workshop and made sure extra support was available, I made sure I explained why the workshop had to be postponed.

Show up every single day

Commitment is a very important part of achieving abundance and this is something many of us have taken for granted. The most successful entrepreneurs are the ones committed to their goals and to making daily actions because they are more focused on achieving the bigger picture and not on what is happening in their present life. Sometimes a daily action feels so minuscule that you do not see how it is contributing towards your achieving your goal but as long as you are making these daily actions with the right intentions, you will eventually achieve your desires. It may not be obvious now but in the future, you will realize that the actions you remained committed to daily eventually paid off in the form of your manifestations becoming your reality.

Make it an obligation to show up every day. Following the eighty-twenty rule, there will be days when you are ill or having a family emergency which is the ten to twenty percent so you must make sure that the eighty percent that is left is dedicated to showing up and staying fully committed to whatever you are doing no matter the circumstances in your personal life. Show your character and you will succeed. Personally, if someone does not carry out the commitment they have made to me without giving any reason prior, my value for them immediately diminishes and it is unlikely that I will ever be able to work with said individual again.

Strive to always be seen as a reliable person. Do not be the kind of person who wastes people’s time because you do not want others to make commitments to you and end up wasting your time either. No matter how you are feeling, come through on your commitment and hold yourself to higher standards because there will always be people waiting for you to fall short so that they can see you as unreliable. Do things because it is the right thing to do even when you do not want to do them, hold yourself to a standard, and fulfill your commitment because you are a person of integrity.

Conclusion

Be an authentic person. Success comes with various twists and turns in life but as long as you continue to follow through on your commitments, commit to your goals and take daily action, have higher standards for yourself then you will achieve any form of desire you have for yourself eventually. What you do in your professional life will reflect in your personal life and vice versa you must make commitments and follow through on them in all areas of your life.

Be committed to yourself even as you accomplish your daily commitments. No matter the circumstances life throws at you, you will overcome them as long as you stay true to yourself and do the necessary work even when you do not want to. There are always going to be things that turn up that you do not want to do or you do not feel like doing but you cannot give in to these urges, you must remain focused and committed in order to reach your manifested goals.

Move On and Let Go For Abundance

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A quote I heard once said ‘There are things that we never want to let go of and people we never want to leave behind but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world but the beginning of a new life” and this caused an energy shift in my life because I recently had to let go of a very close relative of mine and even though it was a difficult decision to make, I have found that this decision has bettered me as a person. The reason I had to let go of this relative of mine was that we were no longer on the same mental plane and even though I still love and respect her, our conversations were beginning to feel toxic to me; actively making the painful decision to pull back and let her go ended up restoring the positive energy that had been missing in my life.

When is it time to let go?

1. When someone’s negativity is rubbing off on you:  No matter how optimistic you are, being surrounded by toxic people can cause their negativity to rub off on you. You are the average of the people you spend time with so to reach your full potential, you need to be surrounded by positive people.

2. When you have grown apart from someone: I have some childhood friends who I had to let go of because our ideas of life were no longer the same, while I am more ambitious and business-minded now most of them are content with their nine-to-five jobs and where they currently are in life. So even though I still love them and wish them well, we are no longer on the same wavelength and no longer share the same core values.


3. When you are unhappy with your circumstances: Sometimes it is good to persevere and keep moving forward even though your situation seems difficult. Other times it is better to cut your losses and move on before things get even more difficult than they already are. Sometime in 2011, I set up a business with my cousin which I ended up having to let go of about two years later due to a lack of clients; even though we had gotten all the accreditations and I had invested so much money, time and energy into this business it ended up not being fruitful. There will be times that you invest in something, in this case a business, and the universe just does not want you to move in that direction but as long as you have faith that things are happening for you and not to you and that universal energy would never give up on you, you will achieve the life you have desired for yourself.

4. When your goals change: When I decided to start a family, I chose to leave my goal of being a lawyer behind and to instead raise my children myself as a stay home mom. After my separation, I became the breadwinner and had to get back to work again to provide for my family; however I did not go back to law even though I had worked so hard to get that degree. My goals in life had changed and I had to let go of my identity as a lawyer in order to pursue all the other goals I have for my life; you have to let go of your old goals and move on to this newer, higher version of yourself who has new goals that are positive for your manifestation journey. If you are in a profession and a higher self is calling towards a different goal, then divine energy is pointing you to the next challenge of achieving the life you manifested for yourself.

5. When fear is holding you back: Part of letting go and moving on is facing the disappointments and mistakes of your past. I have been divorced for about six years now and a question I am always asked is why I have not moved on to another relationship after all this time; at first, I used my children and work as my excuse but I soon realized that I was letting my fear of having another narcissistic abusive partner hold me back from moving forward with a new partner. Whether it is a business or a partnership, you cannot let the bad experiences you have had in the past deter you from reaching your full potential and manifesting the dreams you have for your life.

6. When you are still living in your past: Sometimes we allow ourselves to develop these unrealistic expectations of ourselves, family members, friends, businesses, relationships, etcetera, and when these expectations are not met, we complain about what could have been and how we could have changed our past situations. If you do not allow yourself to let go of the sadness and pain from your past, you will never be able to move forward in your manifestation journey.

7. When you are holding grudges: Old grudges are only capable of hurting you if you allow them to. A grudge I remember having to let go of was one I had been holding against my brother and my sister-in-law; my brother had refused to let me move out of the house until I got married while his wife made it very difficult for me while I lived there and even though I love my brother so much right now our relationship was very different. I had not lived in their house since 2005 but I let myself carry that negative energy for years and was allowing this past event to stop me from moving forward and achieving the life of success that I was manifesting for myself.

8. When you are only seeing the pain from an experience and not the lesson: Everything that happens in your life happens for a reason and if you only allow yourself to see the pain an event has caused you, you will not be able to learn any lessons from these situations. You have to learn to not just let go of the pain of your past but to also let go of the self-made expectations you could not meet and forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made. Let the pain go and embrace the lessons you learned from the experience instead.

Focus on the lesson, not the pain

During a recent visit to Pakistan, I was introduced to some relatives I had never met before and while I interacted with them I realized that even after being gone for 17 years, all these people still behaved the same way they did in the past. This was the universe showing me that even though I walk around trying my best to ignore it, most people behave badly and whether I believe it or not there will always be people whose energies are not good for me; this was a hard lesson for me to learn especially because it meant letting go of some people who were really close to me but unfortunately fit this description. Life has taught me that I cannot have blind faith in everyone and this lesson has saved me a lot of heartache for the future.

Tips on how to let go

1. Accept what happened and show gratitude for it: There is always some element of good that comes from a situation, no matter how bad the situation might have been. Bob Proctor once said ‘Whatever happens to you, there are equal amounts of good and bad’ meaning on your manifestation journey things are always balanced, if something good happens to you it is likely that something bad could happen to you as well. Accept reality as it is and show gratitude to the universe for the truth that you have now been made aware of.

2. Build some distance between the people you need to let go of: You need to build some distance between yourself and the people with negative energy in your life. There are people, for example family members or work colleagues, that you cannot completely avoid talking to completely so you can instead cut ties with them. Put some physical distance between you and them as well as energetic distance in order for you to recreate your relationship from a new angle.

3. Focus on what can be changed: In my case, I have been using Facebook as my primary platform for growing my business but now I am looking at other platforms which could help me expand better. You need to realise that when one door closes, the universe is always there opening other doors for you; let go of the closed door and focus on what can make your situation better and move you forward on your manifestation journey.

4. Be in control of your life: To truly let go, you need to claim ownership of your life. Do not let yourself live by other people’s views and standards, instead take responsibility for the events that are occurring in your life whether they are good or bad; I had to learn that if I could manifest the hurtful events I went through for myself then I could manifest wealth and prosperity into my life as well so I took personal responsibility for the bad of my past and refused to allow it define who I am today. Take personal responsibility for the events you are experiencing and make changes that will benefit your journey to wealth and elevate your positive vibration.

5. Be focused: Pay attention to the thoughts, words, and actions you are making and have positive conversations with your inner self to avoid manifesting negativity into your life. Everything that is showing up in your physical world externally is a direct reflection of what is happening in your inner world so take responsibility for the conversations you have with your inner self and focus on the positives to reap positive results.

6. Let go: Stop allowing yourself to associate with the people who radiate negative energy in your life, no matter who they are. Spend the limited time we have on earth with the people who spread positivity and make you feel good about yourself, not belittle you or make you feel like everything is wrong. If someone does not value who you are then you should not be spending the majority of your time with them.

Conclusion

Identify those people you need to let go of for you to move on and be happy with your life. Allow yourself to live in today, not in your past or in what your future will be because today is the moment that truly matters; your current life is the only thing that you can truly change so make sure to spend today thinking and manifesting positivity for your future self to enjoy tomorrow.

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