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10 Mindset Hacks That Wealthy and Successful People Use

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Everyone wants to become successful and wealthy, but it can be difficult to know where to start. Fortunately, there are some mindset hacks used by wealthy and successful people that can help you on your journey.

In this blog post, I’ll provide 10 mindset hacks that can help you become more successful and wealthy. I’ll also provide tips on how to incorporate these hacks into your daily life. So, if you’re looking to become more successful and wealthy, this blog post will provide you with the knowledge and skills you need to make it happen. Read on to learn more about the 10 mindset hacks that wealthy and successful people use and how you can use them too.

Hack #1

Have an abundance mindset. Successful people focus on what they have rather than on what they lack; they believe that all the resources they need are available and instead of waiting for opportunities to come to them, they focus on creating opportunities that will aid them in reaching their success.

This hack is about being proactive and going for what you want rather than waiting for it to just fall in your lap. People have said to me severally that you need money to make money but I believe you do not need money to make money, you just need an idea; with the right idea and belief in this idea you will be able to attract all the money you will need to make this goal a reality.

Hack #2 

Set goals for yourself. Successful people always make sure they set great goals for themselves and can break these goals into workable steps that they can easily achieve.

If, for example, you may not have any idea of when or how you will be able to make whatever amount of money you would like to make monthly but when you take the initial steps, formulate a plan to make this amount, and take action, your belief in universal energy will start to make this dream an actuality in your physical world.

It is important that you have a plan or idea of where you are going and break it down into steps that you are following in order to achieve your dreams, even if these plans can change along the way.

Hack #3:

Speak positively to yourself. You need to develop positive self-talk because this acts as a form of self-hypnosis for you, if your inner conversations are constructive then you will release positive vibrations into the universe but if they are destructive, you will only be able to release negative vibrations into your atmosphere.

Declare your positive affirmations to yourself continuously and believe in your ability to succeed always, not just at one point in your day; Focus on your strengths and visualize yourself achieving your goals, have a good idea of what it is that you want to achieve and let your inner self reflect these beliefs as well.

To reach the goals you plan on achieving in life, you need to have the belief that you can truly get there and cultivate these beliefs through inner self-talk.

Hack #4

Take risks. Successful people are not afraid to take calculated risks; to achieve greatness there is always an element of risk that you will have to take, you will need to step out of your comfort zone and premeditated risks not just random risks for the sake of it.

Weigh the pros and cons of your possibility first before you take the leap of faith and go for it; there will be times when it looks crazy to other people but as long as it is a risk you have calculated and you have considered the losses that you might take then have faith in your decision and do not be afraid.

Someone said to me once that people who are afraid of risking anything will end up risking everything so make calculated risks and allow yourself to have faith in these chances you have planned to take.

Hack #5

Be willing to continuously learn. Wealthy people understand that education does not stop when you get your degree or other academic qualification, you have to constantly evolve and keep finding ways to improve your craft every day till you excel at it. Personally I continuously learn and evolve every day, I refused to let my education stop when I graduated and became a barrister and because of this, I have been able to become the person I am today.

You have to invest in your personal and professional development and keep finding new ways to seek out knowledge in order to better yourself; Something I learned from Tony Robbins long ago is that there is never something that is status quo; you are never truly stagnant but you are either developing your knowledge and becoming a better version of yourself or diminishing. Constantly strive to be better in every area of your life, if you do not then you will end up reducing in value.

Hack #6

Be resilient. Successful people have high levels of resilience; on this journey to true generational wealth you will come across various trials and hurdles in life, there will be setbacks that will try to break you and derail you from your path to manifestation but if you do not have resilience you are going to snap at the first hurdle you encounter.

For you to bounce back from setbacks, you need to build your powerhouse of resilience against negative situations and keep moving forward with your goal in mind even in the face of adversity.

Those who can push through these adversities are the ones who end up succeeding while those who cannot end up failing; resilience is not something you are born with but has to be developed over time with the more hurdles you overcome in life and with a positive mindset.

Hack #7

Be focused. Something one of my mentors said to me once was that ‘energy flows where focus goes’, he used the example of a skier who is going skiing down a slope and encounters a tree in his path, as long as he is focused in the direction of that tree he will surely end up heading towards it no matter how much he says he does not want to hit it.

In life, if you keep focusing on negativity and the things that are going wrong in your life rather than on your goals and where you plan on heading then you will never be able to achieve anything; Focus on where you are going not where you are or where you have been.

Wealthy people are great at focusing their attention on things that matter, they prioritize their time and energy and do not waste their resources on things that do not align with their goals so emulate this behavior and develop your focus on your dreams continuously.

Hack #8

Be grateful. Generally, most wealthy people practice gratitude; they focus on what they want to achieve and appreciate the good things in their life.

There have been people who have made large amounts of money quickly, for example, lottery winners, athletes, etcetera, but because of their ingratitude they ended up losing this wealth just as quickly; Gratitude not only brings wealth but keeps that prosperity in your life as well.

Cultivating an attitude of gratitude helps you attract more abundance to your life, in both the Bible and the Quran God clearly says that when you are grateful, he will increase the number of things that you are grateful for meaning he will give you more things to be grateful for.

Hack #9

Surround yourself with successful people. In one of the Prophet Mohammed’s teachings, he said that on the day of judgement you will get up with the people who are with you, he speaks about choosing your friends wisely because they are the ones who will be there to accompany you on the day of judgement and they have a strong impact on your day to day living.

Scientifically it has been proven that the amount of money you can have is the average of the five closest people in your life; if you are close to people who do not make much money then that is you will end up showing up in your life, you cannot go beyond your social circle.

Find ways to spend more of your time with successful and wealthy people, seek mentors and other successful people who have been able to achieve what you want to achieve and can help you continuously learn and grow on your manifestation journey. Allow yourself to be in a community of other people who are striving to be on the same path and to achieve goals that are similar to the ones you are planning on attaining.

Hack #10

Give back. Wealthy people always have a philanthropic mindset; they believe in giving back to the community, helping people who need it, and using their money to make the lives of others better. Your money can go a lot further than you will ever be able to physically go; of course you should save some of the money for you and your generation to live comfortably but make sure you use the abundance you have been blessed with by universal energy to bless others.

Give back to people who do not have the facilities that you have been given for example orphanages, victims of natural disasters, charities etcetera; you will not be on this earth forever so do your best to leave this world better than you met it.

Conclusion

Make the money you would like to make, achieve your goals, spend on yourself and on the things that you would like, and then have enough left over to be able to spend doing God’s will by helping those who do not have.

Congratulations!  You now have the tools and techniques you need to become more successful and wealthy. With the right mindset, anything is possible.

Now that you’ve read this blog post, you have the knowledge you need to apply the 10 mindset hacks that wealthy and successful people use. So, take the time to incorporate these mindset hacks into your daily life and watch as your success and wealth begin to skyrocket.

 Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/S_4yf_KPu7A

 

Hope Fuels Faith

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 Today we will be discussing hope, how hope fuels your faith, why faith is important to your belief, and why believing is an essential ingredient needed for your manifestation journey. 

 

How hope fuels your faith

   It is important that you have enough hope- fueled faith to believe that you can achieve all the things you have dreamt about for yourself, no matter what area of your life these dreams are related to.

When those moments of doubt from the devil creep into your life, it is essential that you have strong faith in your beliefs and for this faith to be as firm as you need, you need to have hope. Personally, when I am at my lowest or darkest moments, I turn to prayers more than anything else naturally because that connection with the divine reinforces my hope in God and the plans he has for my life which helps recharge my faith that everything I am manifesting will fall into place according to divine timing. 

   Many religions – and even those who do not believe in God – have specific times of prayers or periods when the world is quiet, you can put your worldly thoughts aside, sit through meditation and connect with divine energy.

Connecting to divine energy gives you peace because now you have hope that your manifestations and prayers are going to come true. When you meditate, you are able to connect to your higher self and to what you are desiring for yourself and regardless of what path you take, you have hope that whatever you are creating and manifesting is going to happen.   

 

God is looking out for you 

   You need to truly believe that divine energy is looking out for you and everything you are hoping for is going to happen for you; God is looking out for you and as long as you have faith that allows you to believe daily, you will be able to overcome the doubts that creep into your mind when you are facing tough situations on your manifestation journey. 

I have always thought Bollywood actor, Shah Rukh Khan, is an amazing person who really embodies everything about the law of attraction and manifesting the life you want for yourself; generally he is very honest and upfront about how he achieved things and what you should do to reach the success that he has been able to reach.

I listened to an interview he did where someone asked if he thought the three films he did before he took a four-year sabbatical for health reasons would be successful and he replied that he believed that every single one of them is going to be a super duper hit; he said ‘I’m not saying this to be arrogant but this is the belief that I hold. And it’s a belief that I go to sleep with, it’s a belief that I wake up with, and it’s a belief that I walk around with and I thought, absolutely fantastic’ and this is how every one of us is supposed to be believing.

When the movie came out after this interview, it ended up breaking box office records and making large amounts of money not just because of how great he is at marketing (because he did a lot of amazing marketing for the movie and was able to cover his costs for it even before the film came out) but because of the belief he already had in the project.

Shah Rukh Khan has always had complete belief in himself and in his dreams and aspirations for as long as I have seen him in Bollywood and this is something we all can learn from and aspire to do in our own lives every day; even when it does not look like things are working out right now they will happen eventually according to divine timing as long as you believe in yourself and in universal energy. 

 

Believe in yourself      

   You do not have to be the best at everything to achieve your goals, you just have to believe in yourself and whatever you are manifesting for your life; The one thing that you need to have for you to be ultimately financially successful, successful in relationships or successful in any area of your life is faith in the dreams and aspirations you have for yourself.

Do not ever allow yourself to think about the opposite of your dreams or doubt that any of your manifestations will come true, if you truly believe in yourself with all your heart and mind you will be able to achieve anything you desire.

   When you believe you can do something, you work harder to achieve it and become more motivated to try harder to reach that goal you are believing in.

Give it your best with the belief that you are going to succeed then mountains begin to be moved for you, the universe contrives and gives you everything you want; when you really want something the whole universe conspires to give you that which you are desiring for yourself and this is what the law of attraction is all about.

You may not have the same talents or opportunities as someone else but you cannot let that derail you from the manifestations you have planned for your life, as long as you are able to believe in yourself and your abilities you will succeed. 

You have to start figuring out how to instill yourself to have this belief and to have this belief, you have to have faith in a higher power no matter what your religion is. When you believe in a higher power it allows you to have faith and this faith gives you hope to solidify your belief that everything is going to work out for your success.  

 

Conclusion

Make sure that you have a ritual, prayer, or meditation that gives you hope every day and this hope fuels your faith in divine energy or whatever higher power you believe in. Shah Rukh Khan believed in his dreams, worked for them, and was able to achieve them over and over again; no matter how much effort you put into something, if you do not have the belief it will not work out the way you have envisioned it to work out. 

If you do not believe in your dreams and continuously allow doubt to cloud your mind, you will never be able to achieve them no matter the amount of effort you put into it.

Hard work is important but believing that you can achieve your goals is much more important; if there is anything you want to achieve in life you have to believe with here atom of your being that it has already happened for you and the universe is bringing things together for it to come into fruition for you to receive in the physical world. 

 

Don’t miss out on diving even deeper into this topic! Tune in to our podcast episode where we discuss the nuances of the subject; https://gullkhan.com/podcast/, and check out our visually stunning YouTube video which showcases the key takeaways; https://youtu.be/Qp9jX1qVgSs

 

 

Three Steps To Manifesting Wealth

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Today let us talk about the three steps you need to fulfill to manifest your wealth. As you must all know by now, I am a firm believer in simplicity and not overcomplicating situations. The simpler the solution to a problem is, the better it is for me and the more application it can have; Here are the three steps to manifesting anything you want in your life:

Step One:

Be very clear about what you want. Too many people say they want things but are unsure about them and it is this uncertainty that does not allow their manifestations to come to pass. Do not put limitations on yourself; the desires you truly want are coming to you from your higher self via divine energy so they are not just random events that are occurring in your mind’s eye.

If you truly have a desire for something then you have the talents and abilities to make that dream your reality in your physical world, you just have to work out how to acquire the skills to hone these gifts. Divine energy will never give you a desire if you do not have the talent for it – be it a dormant one or an active one. Be sincere with yourself about what you truly want, write these desires down, allow yourself to stay aware of these desires, and take them one step at a time till you have completed all the goals on your list.

Step Two:

Believing that you can have these clear desires you have written for yourself. No matter the dream that you are manifesting for your life – whether it is to make a million monthly, to have a new car, a new partner, a new house etcetera – if you do not have the conviction that it is already yours, then it will never be manifested. You can wish for something over and over again but unless you strongly believe it you will never be able to attain it; bypass the difficulties of your physical world and do not allow them to dissuade you from the strong convictions your higher self has made.

The problem most people have with manifesting is having that unshaken belief in their desires, if you do not instill this belief inside of you that you will achieve this dream then you will only end up being someone who continuously wants but never ends up achieving. You have to have the certainty that what you have dreamt of has already been given to you, only then will these desires begin to manifest for you in your physical world.

There is an old saying that goes ‘if you can see it in here, if you can believe it in here, you can hold it in here’ but knowing it in here and believing it in here are two different things, unless you have that inner belief that everything will work out for you then it will never come to pass.

When you come from this energy, things will always work in your favor. If there is something you truly desire then you need to develop the conviction for it first; manifesting tools that can help you get rid of doubts and instill these convictions inside of you include the mirror exercise (my personal favorite), daily affirmations, vision boards etcetera. Something I teach beginners of my mastermind class is having a manifestation roadmap; we get on a call together, I give them my favorite techniques, we discuss what they truly desire, and techniques we use daily in order to turn these beliefs into convictions in daily lives.

Step number two is usually the hardest because it is during this phase that your limiting beliefs interfere and this negative energy towards money creates uncertainties and pushes whatever you desire away from you. People who try to use the law of attraction in their favor but do not have the belief in their desires end up battling with their inner programming who is sending negative energy into the universe by just wanting without conviction.

There’s a difference between wanting and desiring; When you want something and you are radiating energy that is a lack of it, it does not exist in your life at the moment. When you desire it, you cannot only want it but you must also instill the belief that you already have the things you are manifesting. The laws of the universe are very specific and will only work for you if you understand them, for example, the laws of gravity cannot be stopped no matter how much you want them to but when you understand the laws then you will know how to make them work for you.

Using the right manifesting techniques, you instill the belief and turn that belief into conviction over some time, the longer it takes you to turn that belief into conviction, the longer it will take for you to bring whatever you want into your into your three-dimensional world.

Step Three:

Listen to your intuition. When you have instilled the belief that you can achieve your desire inside of you, you will create opportunities and situations that will help you accomplish these goals and then take inspired action from your inner thoughts.

Before you make any decision, take time to stop, sit down, meditate, and think it through before reacting; never take action without being inspired.

What do you feel inspired to do? What do you feel is the next step for you to create this desire in your physical world? As important as step number two is, if you do not take action to support your conviction then your manifestation will not happen for you at the rate it is supposed to.

Conclusion

Figure out what you desire, turn your belief into a conviction that what you desire is already available to you without any form of doubt, and then take action to see what you are inspired to do to bring that desire into your physical world.

Having a Clear Vision For Your Goals

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Today we are going to be discussing having a clear vision for our goals in order to reach our manifestations.

Why is having a clear vision for your goal so important?

The first step to constructing the life you are manifesting is to know exactly what it is that you want to create meaning you need to clearly know what you want and have these goals written down. Most especially in the beginning of the year, we are all encouraged to have goals or resolutions for our lives, make sure they are positive and in the present tense and have them written down.

After this, your next step is to understand your clear vision and find the importance of this reason; when you do not have clear reasons why you want to achieve your vision, you will lose hope in them when the tough circumstances of life arrive and when you run out of faith in your goals you will never be able to achieve them. When you are not as emotionally invested in a manifestation, it is more likely that this goal will be achieved faster than that goal that you are passionate about.

In those moments of hardship, you need to hold on to your goals and have faith in the manifestations you have for yourself. One of my clients had this vision to become a business coach but was unable to develop her business without her relationship with her partner suffering and vice versa, when I met up with her I was able to show her that there were some elements of self-sabotage and other things that were not allowing this business thrive.

When the devil realizes that you are determined and focused on fulfilling your goal, it will do everything in its power to attack you in other areas of your life in order to dissuade you from your manifestation journey just as God finds ways to help you in unexpected ways. The devil will always find ways to attack you and try to stop you from achieving your dreams, whether it is directly attacking your manifestation or attacking other parts of your life to break you but as long as you stand strong and have faith you will be able to overcome whatever it throws your way.

Keep an eye on your vision

As long as you have a clear vision of your goals you will not lose sight of your manifestation, no matter what situations you have to face. Be aware of your weaknesses and the areas of your life that will distract you from fulfilling your goals if they are attacked but do not allow yourself to forget the importance of your goal and the clear understanding of why you have these manifestations that you want to achieve.

Instead of letting them distract you, trust that God will take care of your worries and focus on the amazing goals you have written to accomplish your manifestation.

Personally, I know the biggest distraction the devil can use to deter me from achieving my goal is my children which is why my vision for my business is to create a lifestyle for them without having to worry about debts or struggling too much with life. I faced multiple challenges in December 2022 that were simply sent my way by the devil to break me down completely but I was able to overcome them by faith and now I know universal energy has a massive breakthrough waiting for me.

What is your vision and what motivates you to get out of bed in the morning? Before your manifestation shows up in your physical world, the devil will find a way to attack you in order for your dreams not to come to pass – the breakdown before the breakthrough – and only those who can overcome these moments of instability will be able to reach the finish line.

Crawl to faith

Facing these challenges gave me a better understanding of who I am and drew me closer to my faith in God, this has made my prayer life a lot better and has moved my prayer life from intermittent to constant. If you are manifesting something that is really important to you then you must know that the devil will come for you but as long as you stand strong and hold on to your faith in divine energy, your breakthrough will surely come.

Have a clear vision for your goal and always write your goals in the present tense. Why do you believe that it must take two to five years for you to achieve your goal of making a hundred thousand a month? Why do you think you cannot achieve it in the next month or few months?

If you continuously write your dreams in the future tense then they will not be fulfilled till this time period because that is when you believe your manifestation is going to happen for you. Believe that divine timing is in your present and that universal energy is willing to give you everything you desire now if you truly trust in them.

You cannot have a desire without it already being allocated to you and without it being present in your universal warehouse because only then do you become aware of it and only then can you pray for it. In Islamic tradition, we are taught that if God gives you a desire and allows you to pray for it then the only reason he has allowed you to pray for it is that he wants you to receive it so if you have a desire, it has already been allocated to your spiritual world and it is only a matter of time before it manifests in your physical world.

Conclusion

You have to know that before your manifestation appears in your physical world, you will face some form of turmoil or challenge during your journey. The breakdown will always happen before the breakthrough so hold on to faith with both hands in these trying times; it is at that moment that those who are truly manifesting become separated from those who do not have belief in their dreams.

Conquer your demons, overcome the turmoil, and persevere to the end! Your manifestation will come to pass only if you truly hold on to your belief in it.Do not get bitter, get better.

5 Steps to Changing Any Beliefs

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Today we will be discussing the five steps you need to follow in order to change your beliefs and ultimately, your lives.

How to change your beliefs

I have taught on the three steps to manifesting and how the second – and most important- step is truly believing in your manifestation. A famous quote by Henry Ford that has stuck with me since I began my entrepreneurial journey said ‘If you believe you can then you can and if you believe you can’t then you can’t ‘ and it was with this that I realized that the beliefs we have as humans are very important; As it says in the Bible, ask for something and if you believe it will be given to you, and in the Quran, I am to my servant as he expects me to be meaning when you believe something then definitely it will be true for you.

Now that we have discussed the importance of beliefs, how do we identify and change these beliefs? As I began to look at my manifestation journey and the work that I do, I have realized that we create a new reality by generating and adapting new beliefs. I was speaking to the members of my mastermind during the question & answer session today and I told one of them that if she can believe in her heart that she can earn a hundred thousand then that is the amount she will start to earn in her bank account; the amount of time this would take is not the problem because in truth you have the ability to collapse time as long as you have the deep conviction to do so. If you have true belief in your manifestation, then that will be the reality that will show up for you.

Five Steps To Changing One’s Beliefs

These are methods that I personally have used at various points in my life, especially whenever I think I am not succeeding at something or something is not going well for example, I realized that even though I had a good relationship with money, my relationship with time was lacking so to improve that I needed to make some changes to the current beliefs I have concerning time.

1. Identify the areas you would like to work on.

If you do not focus on the specific section of your life that you need to change, you end up creating beliefs on various random parts instead. Now how do you get to these core beliefs? Identify the center of the particular area you want to work on and the more focused you are on that specific, the more you allow your mind to focus on beliefs about it. Using money as our area of focus, if you currently make a hundred thousand a month then there is nothing stopping you from making that same amount daily; the universe does not see the numbers when we are dealing with money but rather the changes in our energies regarding money.

2. Write down all your beliefs about this area.

One thing that has helped me on multiple occasions regarding this is whenever I get new ideas, I set a timer for five minutes and write down as much as I can without lifting my pen for this period of time. When you do this you find out that your logical mind, for the first few minutes, has empowering views of money before your subconscious mind begins to think about all the reasons making money would be a difficult task. By the time the timer goes off, you will realize that your conscious mind has given you amazing money beliefs for your new reality.

3. Read through the beliefs you have written.

When you look through the beliefs you have written during those five minutes, you will realize that you should be able to identify about two to five core beliefs that summarize all your other beliefs. This helps you analyze how your mind works and what core beliefs rule your subconscious mind and is creating your reality that your conscious mind is not aware of.

4. Create the opposite of the core beliefs you already have.

These will be your new set of beliefs. If one of your core beliefs is there is not enough time in the day to make the amount of money you would like to make daily, then your new core belief should be that you need a new system that would allow you to make this type of income in that short period. So you do not need to work ten times harder, you just have to find a different way of working to achieve your aforementioned goal.

The amount I make working shorter hours now with ease is almost ten times more than the amount I made working longer hours when I was a lawyer because I had not created the system that worked best for me yet; My conviction was that I could not only do this but do it differently and it was with this that I was able to create the reality I am living today; If the core beliefs you currently have are not working then try the opposite of these beliefs till you reach a system that works better and easier for you. Before you can create a new reality you need to have the belief to back it up.

5. Embody your new beliefs and make them part of your energy system.

This step is the hardest part. There are several modalities like EFT, energy healings, energy clearing, NLP techniques etcetera; generally, I believe any manifesting technique is about reprogramming your new beliefs and creating a new reality from the new sets of beliefs that you have. In order to embody these new beliefs in your energy field and make your convictions, I would recommend doing your personal research using books, mediations, teachings etcetera.

My favorite one is energy clearing and in my masterminds, I teach about using this method to help connect you to life as well as take out the energy in your old beliefs and put them into new beliefs; energy clearing is repeating this clearing continuously over the next few weeks until these new beliefs get embodied into your energy field. This causes you to start thinking differently from a new portal belief system rather than the old one and in turn, is why we get quicker results because the faster you instill a new belief, the faster your new reality begins to show up in your physical world.

Conclusion

Focus on yourself and your beliefs; The quicker you can change your beliefs, the quicker you will be able to create a new reality for yourself. Find new techniques and modalities that can help you identify and instill new beliefs in yourself. Change your beliefs and create a new reality for yourself to make your manifestations a part of your physical world.

Being the Best Version Of Yourself

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Today we are going to be discussing you and how you can be the best version of yourself.

 

Stop Comparing Yourself

One of the biggest problems we face during our journey to wealth is comparing ourselves to others. We tend to believe that the other person is doing better than we are, for one reason or the other, and this is why we end up coming short of ourselves. However, I need you to understand that you are unique; there is no one else in the world more important than you and if you can focus more on bettering yourself rather than on what others are doing you will surely reach all the goals you are manifesting for yourself.

Regardless of the shortcomings and weaknesses you believe you have, you are still the most amazing being on this planet because there is only one you. There is no one like you in the world, no matter how hard they try to be and if identical twins end up having their differences from each other why would you want to be the same as anyone else? All the skills and abilities that you need to fulfill your life’s purpose have already been given to you by divine energy, the problem is that you are too busy so busy comparing yourself to the people around you that you cannot see them.

Personally, I am severely dyslexic and because of this there are various challenges I have to overcome every day such as speaking slowly however I cannot compare myself to someone who speaks more eloquently than I do because they are not facing the same situations I am. We all have our likes and dislikes, the things we prefer and the things we do not, and this is perfectly normal; stop trying to please everyone and instead accept who you are and what you can do. Build on your strengths and work on your shortcomings because truthfully no one is perfect.

Accept Yourself As You Are

Just like everyone else, you have your flaws and faults but if you do not accept yourself wholly then you will not be able to allow others to love and accept you as well. You can not expect other people to appreciate you when you do not appreciate yourself. No matter how much you emulate and imitate someone, you can never be that person nor can you truly be anyone other than yourself; if you spend your life trying to be a copy of someone else then you will end up miserable and unfulfilled because it simply is not possible.

It is your responsibility to be the best and most unique version of yourself possible, continuously being a better you daily because there is no one else who can be you not even a clone of yourself. Various things have made you who you are today – the choices you made, the paths you have chosen, the thoughts you have had, the circumstances you have undergone etcetera, and these specific quirks that makeup who you are cannot be emulated by anyone else on the planet. You are a unique being and no one can ever be you.

Everything you are going through in life is to prepare you for your next level. Your previous experiences have armed you with particular skills, abilities, and personality traits that you will need for the next level of your evolution. Just like in a video game, the next stage in our life is always going to be harder but the reward you earn from it is usually bigger than the last. When challenges arise you can choose to let them make you a bitter or better person; I heard a saying once that said ‘I asked God for strength and then he gave me challenges which required me to have strength. I asked God for faith and then he gave me certain circumstances where faith was the only option’ this applies to our daily lives because challenges will always come but how you allow these circumstances to affect you will determine whether you are growing or deteriorating.

You Are A Masterpiece

Everything you are going through in this life is shaping you into the masterpiece that you are destined to be. Whether you accept it or not, universal energy believes you are a work of art and that you deserve every good thing you want for yourself in this life but to reach this point, you have to go through various trials which will test your unique abilities and gifts; for example, a two hundred meter sprinter can run a marathon and a marathon runner can run a two hundred meter sprint but they each have their unique abilities which make them suited or their own races. Where a two-hundred-meter sprinter has more speed, a marathon runner has more stamina and longevity and these specific skills are what make them both great at their tasks.

Stop trying to copy people. You can be inspired by the work of someone else and learn new skills from them but in the end, you have to do something unique to you. God has a purpose for you that can not be fulfilled by anyone else on this planet, you are his amazing masterpiece and he did not create you by mistake. There is a plan for every one of us and even though we do not have the mental capacity to truly understand this plan, we must trust that universal energy knows what they are doing and that their timing is always right.

As we start this new year, make a promise to yourself to stop negative speech, especially self-speech. Whenever you feel those dark, low feelings do not voice them out, instead speak positive things into your life and allow yourself to be grateful to universal energy for making you their masterpiece. Comparing yourself to someone else is like comparing a cat, who has its specific skills for its own specific circumstances, to a fish which also has the same for its own unique purpose; Do not devalue yourself because you believe someone else is doing better than you are, you are amazing and even though you are a work in progress you are still a masterpiece.

Conclusion

Stop treating yourself like a second-class citizen and instead work on the things you believe you need to be better at for yourself, not for anyone else. Learn that skill you want to learn, try new hobbies, work on handling your emotions better and on any other shortcoming you believe you have to fix.

There are so many amazing things in your life, stop focusing on the one or two issues that you are facing and start accepting that you are an amazing individual with unique abilities and talents that make you who you are. Stop focusing on the black dot on the whiteboard and instead look at the massive amount of white that is left – you are amazing, you are a gift from God, you are a masterpiece and a few flaws do not change that fact. There is a reason you have been given this life at this moment so instead of putting yourself down and being negative towards yourself, find your purpose and believe in the plan that God has for your life.
Love and appreciate who divine energy has made you be and do not be a cheap copy of someone else.

Welcoming the new year by reflecting on last year

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Today we will be discussing how to move on from last year – celebrating what we achieved and the lessons we learned – while welcoming and setting your targets for the new year.

Welcome to the new year

It seems like we were just celebrating Christmas in 2021 and now, in the blink of an eye, we are in 2023. Last year was a challenging year for me because there were a lot of things that I had to deal with in my personal life; this affected my professional life as well because I had to give most of my attention to my family and personal life during these trying times however thanks to divine energy I am still able to look back at last year with a sense of achievement and fulfillment that surprises even me.

Although I did not advance as much professionally last year, I was able to grow a lot as a person and I am truly grateful for everything that I learned in 2022. Similarly, you need to give yourself space to reflect on the previous year not based on the amount of money you made or other external factors but to look inwards and appreciate everything that you survived to get to where you are today. Allow yourself to meditate on the ups and downs that you had to handle in 2022 and to grow holistically not just focusing on the financial aspect of your advancement in life; If your sole purpose in life is to only grow financially then you are living an empty life.

The main success of life is not the monetary desires you have for yourself but who you become to achieve these goals. When I look at my last year financially, I realize it was very similar to 2021 meaning I did not grow much in that aspect last year mostly due to certain unforeseen circumstances in my personal life but even though I had to deal with different disappointments last year I dealt with all of them and came out on top which is why I can come here to celebrate today.

Celebrate your wins, no matter how small

Celebrate the times when you were able to overcome the challenges in your life and achieved things you never thought you would be able to achieve. One of the first things that happened to me around April last year was that I was involved in a terrible buggy accident while I was in Turkey, it was such a severe accident that I fell unconscious and I was so sure I had lost both my knees at a point. What surprised me the most though was the amount of strength I was able to show during the situation especially because my son was there and I was determined not to let him feel like he was responsible for the situation I was dealing with, regardless of the pain I was going through I needed to make sure that he did not grow up with the guilt of feeling he was to blame for the situation. Thank God nothing drastic happened to my leg.

As parents, we subconsciously try our best to make sure our children are living their lives happily and healthily yet we always end up second-guessing ourselves and looking for ways to do more for them, especially as working mothers. So I am proud of how I handled that situation and I am proud of my children and how they were able to rise to the occasion and support me during my healing process. That was one of my biggest achievements of 2022; even though it added nothing to me monetarily, I was able to show the true strength of my character and be a good example for my children by getting through the situation. Value who you are and what you were able to achieve last year and the years before that, trust universal energy and let them continue to lead you down the path of who you are becoming; personally, I rely on Allah for everything no matter how big or small the situation is and because of this I am becoming the type of person I can be proud of.

Be proud of yourself

Honestly examine the challenging situations you faced and ask yourself how you overcame them. How did you deal with it? What did you learn from the experience? What about that incident made you feel proud of yourself? Celebrate your achievements, congratulate yourself for how you behaved, and be proud of yourself for being able to deal with the situation.

Another big moment in 2022 for me was when my son ended up in the Accident & Emergency and had to have an emergency operation. As a mother, of course, I was very stressed and worried about him but I also made sure that throughout the entire period I was celebrating God’s help and thanking him in advance for his help during our situation. I remained thankful to divine energy from the beginning to the end and I expected God to help me even though times were challenging. Today my son is normal and 100% healthy again.

No matter what I am dealing with, I remain constantly grateful to divine energy and I make sure my faith in them does not falter. Every step of the way, universal energy created a solution for me and in the end, God was able to find a way out for me in the most divine way. The third incident that almost broke me completely was when my daughter ended up in the Accident & Emergency as well in December just after school had closed. She is home now and doing better although they are still checking up on her from time to time however it is no longer a life-or-death situation and for that, I am thankful to God. What made this situation more difficult than my son’s was that I realized I was not as expectant as I was before, for a few hours my faith did falter to the point where I had to let my brother stay with her while I took some time off to control my emotions and be the parent she needed me to be in that moment.

I fell below the personal standards I usually have and instead of believing I ended up crying to divine energy and even being angry about it yet I did not allow myself to wallow in self-criticism for falling short this time; We are all human and we are all having a human experience on earth even though we are spiritual beings so there will always be moments we fall short of the high standards we set for ourselves. When these periods occur, you have to give yourself space to feel those intense emotions and I look back on that moment with maturity instead of self-loathing, instead of judging myself during these moments I can now ask for God’s strength and forgiveness in my times of weakness. So I gave myself enough time to calm down and was able to love myself enough to start behaving like the mother my daughter needed and I expected myself to be. Today I am proud of myself for giving my human side time to feel and even though my faith faltered I was able to bounce back and hold on to divine energy again.

Conclusion

On this journey to wealth you will have moments of doubts, challenges, and disappointments along the way but it is during these periods that you have to continuously ask God to help you overcome them. There will be times you will wonder if your dream is even worth it in the end but you must realize that you are being tested and remain loyal to yourself and to divine energy.
Allow yourself to feel your human emotions and experience both versions of you – the one that handles situations with faith and trust and the one who has meltdowns and whose faith falters sometimes without dwelling in this state. Look at your life and see what you have personally achieved in the past year.

What lessons are you taking from 2022 into 2023 to allow you to develop and grow as a person? How have you grown and how can you use all that you have learned to help others? How can you have an abundant life not just financially but in all areas of your life? Celebrate the good, bad, and ugly of 2022 and allow all that you learned to help you as you move forward on your journey to wealth.

Move On and Let Go For Abundance

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A quote I heard once said ‘There are things that we never want to let go of and people we never want to leave behind but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world but the beginning of a new life” and this caused an energy shift in my life because I recently had to let go of a very close relative of mine and even though it was a difficult decision to make, I have found that this decision has bettered me as a person. The reason I had to let go of this relative of mine was that we were no longer on the same mental plane and even though I still love and respect her, our conversations were beginning to feel toxic to me; actively making the painful decision to pull back and let her go ended up restoring the positive energy that had been missing in my life.

When is it time to let go?

1. When someone’s negativity is rubbing off on you:  No matter how optimistic you are, being surrounded by toxic people can cause their negativity to rub off on you. You are the average of the people you spend time with so to reach your full potential, you need to be surrounded by positive people.

2. When you have grown apart from someone: I have some childhood friends who I had to let go of because our ideas of life were no longer the same, while I am more ambitious and business-minded now most of them are content with their nine-to-five jobs and where they currently are in life. So even though I still love them and wish them well, we are no longer on the same wavelength and no longer share the same core values.


3. When you are unhappy with your circumstances: Sometimes it is good to persevere and keep moving forward even though your situation seems difficult. Other times it is better to cut your losses and move on before things get even more difficult than they already are. Sometime in 2011, I set up a business with my cousin which I ended up having to let go of about two years later due to a lack of clients; even though we had gotten all the accreditations and I had invested so much money, time and energy into this business it ended up not being fruitful. There will be times that you invest in something, in this case a business, and the universe just does not want you to move in that direction but as long as you have faith that things are happening for you and not to you and that universal energy would never give up on you, you will achieve the life you have desired for yourself.

4. When your goals change: When I decided to start a family, I chose to leave my goal of being a lawyer behind and to instead raise my children myself as a stay home mom. After my separation, I became the breadwinner and had to get back to work again to provide for my family; however I did not go back to law even though I had worked so hard to get that degree. My goals in life had changed and I had to let go of my identity as a lawyer in order to pursue all the other goals I have for my life; you have to let go of your old goals and move on to this newer, higher version of yourself who has new goals that are positive for your manifestation journey. If you are in a profession and a higher self is calling towards a different goal, then divine energy is pointing you to the next challenge of achieving the life you manifested for yourself.

5. When fear is holding you back: Part of letting go and moving on is facing the disappointments and mistakes of your past. I have been divorced for about six years now and a question I am always asked is why I have not moved on to another relationship after all this time; at first, I used my children and work as my excuse but I soon realized that I was letting my fear of having another narcissistic abusive partner hold me back from moving forward with a new partner. Whether it is a business or a partnership, you cannot let the bad experiences you have had in the past deter you from reaching your full potential and manifesting the dreams you have for your life.

6. When you are still living in your past: Sometimes we allow ourselves to develop these unrealistic expectations of ourselves, family members, friends, businesses, relationships, etcetera, and when these expectations are not met, we complain about what could have been and how we could have changed our past situations. If you do not allow yourself to let go of the sadness and pain from your past, you will never be able to move forward in your manifestation journey.

7. When you are holding grudges: Old grudges are only capable of hurting you if you allow them to. A grudge I remember having to let go of was one I had been holding against my brother and my sister-in-law; my brother had refused to let me move out of the house until I got married while his wife made it very difficult for me while I lived there and even though I love my brother so much right now our relationship was very different. I had not lived in their house since 2005 but I let myself carry that negative energy for years and was allowing this past event to stop me from moving forward and achieving the life of success that I was manifesting for myself.

8. When you are only seeing the pain from an experience and not the lesson: Everything that happens in your life happens for a reason and if you only allow yourself to see the pain an event has caused you, you will not be able to learn any lessons from these situations. You have to learn to not just let go of the pain of your past but to also let go of the self-made expectations you could not meet and forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made. Let the pain go and embrace the lessons you learned from the experience instead.

Focus on the lesson, not the pain

During a recent visit to Pakistan, I was introduced to some relatives I had never met before and while I interacted with them I realized that even after being gone for 17 years, all these people still behaved the same way they did in the past. This was the universe showing me that even though I walk around trying my best to ignore it, most people behave badly and whether I believe it or not there will always be people whose energies are not good for me; this was a hard lesson for me to learn especially because it meant letting go of some people who were really close to me but unfortunately fit this description. Life has taught me that I cannot have blind faith in everyone and this lesson has saved me a lot of heartache for the future.

Tips on how to let go

1. Accept what happened and show gratitude for it: There is always some element of good that comes from a situation, no matter how bad the situation might have been. Bob Proctor once said ‘Whatever happens to you, there are equal amounts of good and bad’ meaning on your manifestation journey things are always balanced, if something good happens to you it is likely that something bad could happen to you as well. Accept reality as it is and show gratitude to the universe for the truth that you have now been made aware of.

2. Build some distance between the people you need to let go of: You need to build some distance between yourself and the people with negative energy in your life. There are people, for example family members or work colleagues, that you cannot completely avoid talking to completely so you can instead cut ties with them. Put some physical distance between you and them as well as energetic distance in order for you to recreate your relationship from a new angle.

3. Focus on what can be changed: In my case, I have been using Facebook as my primary platform for growing my business but now I am looking at other platforms which could help me expand better. You need to realise that when one door closes, the universe is always there opening other doors for you; let go of the closed door and focus on what can make your situation better and move you forward on your manifestation journey.

4. Be in control of your life: To truly let go, you need to claim ownership of your life. Do not let yourself live by other people’s views and standards, instead take responsibility for the events that are occurring in your life whether they are good or bad; I had to learn that if I could manifest the hurtful events I went through for myself then I could manifest wealth and prosperity into my life as well so I took personal responsibility for the bad of my past and refused to allow it define who I am today. Take personal responsibility for the events you are experiencing and make changes that will benefit your journey to wealth and elevate your positive vibration.

5. Be focused: Pay attention to the thoughts, words, and actions you are making and have positive conversations with your inner self to avoid manifesting negativity into your life. Everything that is showing up in your physical world externally is a direct reflection of what is happening in your inner world so take responsibility for the conversations you have with your inner self and focus on the positives to reap positive results.

6. Let go: Stop allowing yourself to associate with the people who radiate negative energy in your life, no matter who they are. Spend the limited time we have on earth with the people who spread positivity and make you feel good about yourself, not belittle you or make you feel like everything is wrong. If someone does not value who you are then you should not be spending the majority of your time with them.

Conclusion

Identify those people you need to let go of for you to move on and be happy with your life. Allow yourself to live in today, not in your past or in what your future will be because today is the moment that truly matters; your current life is the only thing that you can truly change so make sure to spend today thinking and manifesting positivity for your future self to enjoy tomorrow.

Expect Miracles and Blessings

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Today we will be discussing the importance of expecting miracles.

Expecting miracles is important for manifestation

No matter the perspective you have towards manifesting your life of success, you need to expect miracles and have faith in the expectations you are nursing. When we as humans are pregnant there are scans and tests which act as evidence to prove the presence of a baby in its mother as well as the baby kicking and moving inside her; but for an animal like the eagle, the mother has to sit on her egg for about thirty-five days waiting for her baby to appear, with no form of confirmation that there is something in its egg until the thirty-fifth day when it hatches.

This is the same thing that happens with your manifestations, there are some situations when there is evidence of improvement, for example when you are healing from a previous illness even when you have not completely recovered from it yet. Unfortunately, there are times things do not work out the way you expect them to, especially when it comes to financial situations but if you are expectant of your miracle and you firmly hold on to your faith in divine energy then you do not need to be afraid of what is to come.

Whenever you are going through something, you have the choice to either lean into fear or lean into faith; the devil wants you to lean into fear and does everything in his power to convince you that you cannot achieve your dreams and you should give up on them while faith will always want you to know that God is on your side and that miracles will happen for you as long as you keep believing that divine energy will come through for you.

Fear vs Faith

There is always an internal battle in our minds between fear and faith. Usually in my line of business, I meet a lot of people who failed in their entrepreneurial journeys not because they lack the talent or charisma but because they lack faith in divine energy. Before any dream is manifested, there is always a period of darkness when it feels like divine energy is silent on the situation you are going through; my mother used to say ‘the darkest part of the night is just before dawn’ so when God is about to do something great in your life, you might experience a period of equal difficulty but as long as you hold on to faith and expect miracles during these adversities divine energy will come through for you.

Most people easily hold on to faith when things are going well and they are not facing any form of difficulty but the moment a situation starts to look impossible, they allow fear to take control of their minds. They go into victim mode, believing that divine energy is no longer working in their favor and that manifestation that was close to being fulfilled no longer comes to pass because of their self-inflicted negativity. Steve Harvey once explained that for most people, the delivery of their manifestation to their doorstep is cutoff by living in a state of doubt so it is during these moments of doubt that you should instead believe that your miracle is on its way and hold on to faith that divine energy is making ways for you. When it seems like nothing is going right; hold on to faith in universal energy, expect them to create miracles for you and your miracles will show up for you.

Show faith first

Most of the time people say they will have faith only when they begin to see physical evidence. As a former lawyer my natural instinct is to rely solely on the evidence in order to believe something but when it comes to the supernatural, having faith comes first before your manifestation can appear in the physical world especially when there is proof that universal energy is working for you. There are some aspects of my life that I am currently manifesting that I have no physical evidence of but I speak about them like they are already happening; I have complete faith in divine energy and I know that when it is time, my miracle will come. So no matter what I am manifesting in my life I know that it is coming whether it comes tomorrow or in ten years, I have faith that God will always work things out in my favor and whenever I have any doubts I lean on this faith and belief.

I have various responsibilities I handle and people I need to support and because of how sensitive a person I am, I end up having to handle my numerous emotions while dealing with all these duties I have but it is my continuous faith in divine energy that constantly keeps me going no matter the obstacles. In life, there will always be issues to deal with and hurdles that you need to face, your job is to continuously speak miracles into your life and hold on to faith that universal energy will make a way for you. I live my life continuously expecting miracles whether it is in my business, my relationship, my daughter’s GCSE exams, or my son’s school selection, no matter what the situation is I always expect miracles and I always expect divine energy to come through for me. Call these miracles into your life at every opportunity and thank universal energy for their constant support, opportunities, grace, and everything you are manifesting for yourself knowing God has a plan for you.

Expect miracles and speak them into your life. It is not possible to be happy and positive one hundred percent of the time but apply the eighty/twenty rule, expect miracles and own a positive vibration eighty percent of the time, and when those overwhelming feelings occur during the twenty percent take a break. Do not allow yourself to verbalize your fears or worries but instead talk to universal energy and cry if you need to, whether they are tears of gratitude to God or they are tears from being so overwhelmed by your situation. The easiest time to create negativity in your life is when your emotions are high and it is during these periods that you must stop yourself from verbalizing fear into your life so as not to pull darkness into your physical world.

Conclusion

Ask universal energy for help in that dark moment and give yourself the space to feel these emotions without speaking and dwelling on them. Do not allow yourself to stay in that dark place and once you have let all the sad emotions out, know that God has heard you and is solving your problems. You have the power to speak miracles for yourself but you need to expect them first and ask divine energy to help you in both your high and low moments. Start expecting miracles that will take you to the next level with ease because expecting miracles are essential for your miracles to show up.

Why Expectations are Necessary to Successfully Manifest Your Wealth

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Today we are going to be discussing expectations and how important positive expectations are on your journey to creating wealth and abundance.

What are Your Expectations?

An expectation is something that you believe is 100% going to happen in a certain way. They involve things that do not require you to hope or wish because, to you, there is already a definite result, for example expecting the sun to rise the next day or expecting your body to breathe out after breathing in. When you are manifesting something for yourself, whether it is a new job or house or wealth etcetera, it is important that you are also internalizing them and positively expecting these things to come to pass in your life. The more you look at your vision board and do not believe it, the more negative energy your doubts are sending into your atmosphere which eventually causes these fears to be created instead of your manifestations.


My daughter is currently preparing for her GCSEs and as a parent, I have been very persistent about what she needs to do and what she needs to study more but she surprised me one day when she explained that my constant worrying was only putting fear and negative emotions in her instead of having positive expectations for the outcome like I always advise. She made me realize that I had allowed myself to go into fear mode and my constant badgering about her needing to study harder and trying to push her more was only instilling that fear I was having about not doing enough for her as a parent onto her; now all I do is encourage her and constantly let her know how proud of her I am no matter her results, feeding her all my positive expectations instead.

Do Not be Afraid

The more desires you have, the more fear you allow yourself have about not accomplishing said desires. Someone asked me once why the desires you want the most are the hardest to manifest and I explained to them, like I am now explaining to you, that when you truly want something there is always that fear of not being able to achieve it or create it for yourself and unfortunately, some of us allow ourselves to lean into these fears rather than the faith and belief we should be having in our dreams. This is what causes us to have negative expectations rather than positive ones and eventually leads to these fears becoming our realities.

I was talking to one of my clients and she asked why she was able to manifest everything else she wanted for herself but not a partner, I explained to her that usually if you can create one area of your life, you can work on all other areas of your life. However, if you find that you are unable to manifest desires easily in a certain area of your life, it is very likely that you have some negative energy/emotions attached to this particular area. In her situation, she was dealing with past emotional trauma from her ex-husband and this was making her push the energy for having a potential partner away from her life in order to prevent her from experiencing heartbreak and betrayal again; it was not her inability to properly manifest a partner but rather her fears from her past experiences that were stopping her from leaning into the positive expectations for this goal even though she was able to overcome her other fears and accomplish all the other desires she had for herself.

Stop Creating the Opposite of Your Manifestation

The desires we want the most are usually the ones we have the most trauma attached to and the stronger our fears concerning these goals are, the more likely it is for the opposite of our manifestation to be actualized. Instead of leaning into faith, we allow fear to cloud our atmosphere which makes us unable to maintain the positive expectations of our manifestations; we lean into the opposite of what we desire and then end up blaming universal energy when our manifestations do not come to pass.

In both the Bible and the Quran, there are various examples of God revealing that he treats you how you expect him to meaning that God wants every one of us to have positive expectations of him. If you believe that God has all these amazing plans for you then why are you allowing yourself to lean into fear? I have found that a lot of religious people have become this way; prayers and reading religious texts have become more about fulfilling a daily ritual and less about the positive expectations that one should be having about these prayers, they bring their requests as empty words and leave without the faith that divine energy will answer their prayers. Why would you ask something from universal energy and expect them not to hear it? In every religious text I have come across, God always says if you ask he will give unto you but you need to truly believe and expect that he is going to give these things you desire to you or you will not receive them.

Conclusion

Even when your desire seems delayed, you have to trust in divine timing and that universal energy in their wisdom will give you what you have manifested for yourself. If you already know how to manifest the dreams you have then you are not dreaming big enough; start making impossible goals for yourself, goals that can only be solved by divine intervention and by universal energy’s involvement. Have positive expectations for these large impossible desires and watch your manifestations become reality in your physical world.

God is always there to help you but he will only help you based on your expectations. If you have a desire but do not believe and expect that universal energy is truly capable of creating this impossible manifestation for you then you will never be able to achieve that desire. The stronger your emotional connection and positive expectation towards a goal is, the faster your manifestation shows up for you in your physical world whether in a few minutes or a few years. The Law of Attraction will only give what you are expecting back to you, not what you are wishing or hoping for so believe in your dreams and in the plans divine energy has for you and let your positive expectations shape your goals into your new reality.

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